Truth Magazine

By Kevin Maxey

Who ever heard of such a contradiction in terms! Imagine the nonexistent mad rush for such a sale. “Non-revealing, modest, loose fitting, godly swimsuits – get yours today! ” Society has set a trend, a trend incited by man’s lustful desires and sensual passions. This insatiable appetite has incredibly influenced the fashions and styles of the day. Our populace has become “attired” in tight-fitting, revealing, and enticing immodest apparel – if you can call it apparel at all.

Problems of the world are always bound to creep into the church, as has happened with this issue. Is it right for the Christian to wear the dress of the world? Can he or she swim in mixed company wearing the modern swimsuits of our day? Can he or she wear revealing clothes, shorts, tank-tops, mini-skirts and the like? As with any issue, we must turn to the Bible for our answer. What does God say about immodest apparel?

This is not a matter that can be avoided. The sincere Christian is commanded to “study to show thyseff approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth” (2 Tim. 2:15). How can we approve all things” (1 Thess. 5:21) without an honest contemplation of the Scriptures?

Before we begin addressing the subject at hand, we must be reminded of fundamental Christian responsibilities that apply to any situation. “Let all things be done unto edifying” (1 Cor. 14:26). Our actions are to build up, strengthen, and encourage, not weaken and entice. “Do all to the glory of God” (1 Cor. 10:31). Our purpose is to serve and glorify God, and do nothing to bring reproach upon his name. Also, it is sinful to assist or cause another to fall. Let “no man put a stumbling block or an occasion to fall in his brother’s way” (Rom. 14:13). Let us keep these obligations to God and others in mind as we continue this study.

Throughout the Bible, God teaches simply and forcefully that lust is sinful. Lust is “a longing especially for what is forbidden, desire, to set the heart upon, passion as if breathing hard, excitement of the mind” (Strong’s). This point is emphasized through distinct commands and clear descriptions of this passion’s destructiveness.

God’s charges are numerous concerning the sin of lust. “Whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart” (Matt. 5:28). Jesus equates the severity of even the thought of sin with that of adultery. Paul demands Timothy to ‘~flee also youthful lusts” (2 Tim. 2:22). Peter likewise commands the Christians to “abstain from fleshly lusts which war against the soul” (1 Pet. 2:11). We are to be “denying ungodliness and worldly lusts” (Tit. 2:12). “Make no provision for the flesh, to fulfill it lusts” (Rom. 13:14). Are you giving opportunity for these lusts to be fulfilled? God commands us to escape “the corruption that is in the world through lust” (2 Pet. 1:4). Lasciviousness is a work of the flesh and “those who practice such things will not inherit the kingdom of God” (Gal. 5:19-21). If you are participating in such lusts you are in sin!

Why are there commands against these lusts of the flesh? Lusts allure one to commit sinful acts. Many fall “having eyes full of adultery and that cannot cease from sin ” (2 Pet. 2:14). Fulfilling such lusts and pleasures only leads to disobedience (Tit. 3:3). Lust has a dangerous end because “when desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full grown, brings forth death” (Jas. 1:15). Lust causes men to commit that which is shameful (Rom. 1:27). False teachers lead people to believe error because “they allure through the lusts of the flesh” (2 Pet. 2:18). The abounding perils of lust are obvious. God clearly condemns lust as shameful and the Christian must have no part in it -no part!

Our next point of observation is self-evident. Immodest dress arouses lust. Gawking bikini-watchers have swarmed to beaches for years. Why? Definitely not to participate in some oceanographic study? It is a study – a study to satisfy their lusts. A survey was conducted asking this very question. Why do people go to the beach? Sixty-nine percent of the men asked replied that the primary reason they went to the beach was to watch the opposite sex (Psychology Today, Dec. 1982, p. 10). One thing is for sure, they were not going to examine girls in modest apparel. They were going to passionately stare at the revealing, seductive, and sensual outfits of the indecent female. And forty percent of the women went to the beach to be seen. What happened to “fleeing” from youthful lusts (2 Tim. 2:22)? How can one honestly “make no provision for the flesh” (Rom. 13:14) when seven out of ten men are at the beach for the sole purpose of stimulating such fleshly lusts? This example undoubtedly proves that immodest dress arouses lust.

The Bible affirms this to be true as well. Remember the downfall of David and Bathsheba? What was it that fueled David’s lust and consequent sin? “He saw a woman bathing, and the woman was very beautiful to behold” (2 Sam. 11:2). It was not Bathsheba’s modesty that sparked David’s craving! Here we find a situation where the lack of sufficient clothing excited lust. David and Bathsheba both placed themselves in situations they should not have been. Sin was the result. Can you honestly say that you need not flee from similar conditions where insufficient clothing is prevalent? Other examples include that of the harlot. Why is the woman adorned in the “attire of a harlot” (Prov. 7:10) condemned? Was it because of her modesty? Why is the attire of the harlot immodest? Because it incites the pleasures of lust! Are you parading about in such alluring attire? Why also is it that a man is commanded to “not approach a woman to uncover her nakedness” (Lev. 18:19)? The viewing of one’s uncovered state promotes lust which only leads to fornication. In fact, “uncover her nakedness” is a euphemism referring to fornication. God continually teaches that immodest dress arouses lust. It is a fact!

Since lust is sinful, and immodest dress arouses lusts, then the only conclusion is that immodest dress is sinful. The Bible commands us to be modest. “Women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefastness and sobriety” (1 Tim. 2:9). Nakedness is shameful. “Be clothed, that the shame of your nakedness may not be revealed” (Rev. 3:18). The world has lost its sense of shame due to immodesty. Have you? Uncovering private nakedness is sin (Exod. 20:26; Lev. 18:19). Being one of chaste and upright conduct requires modest adornment (1 Pet. 3:1-6). Can you picture the godly woman, Mary, seductively donning a bikini? Moral chastity rejects such a thought!

God declares that nakedness is wrong, but what exactly constitutes nakedness? When God spoke of the uncovering of one’s nakedness it was to “make bare the leg, uncover the thigh ” (Isa. 47:2-3). For one’s thigh to be uncovered constituted nakedness in the eyes of the Lord. The priests were commanded to wear “linen breeches to cover their nakedness; from the loins even unto the thighs they shall reach” (Exod. 28:42). God describes uncovered loins and thighs as nakedness! Adam and Eve’s aprons did not constitute being “clothed.” In God’s eyes they still needed to be “clothed.” “God made for Adam and for his wife coats of skins, and clothed them” (Gen. 3:7,21). Therefore, how do swimsuits, mini-skirts, and skimpy shorts rate according to God’s definition of nakedness? Since nakedness is condemned and uncovered loins and thighs constitute nakedness, the wearing of clothes that reveal such parts is sinful.

We have looked at what God says about immodest dress. Lust is sinful. Immodest dress arouses lust. Therefore, immodest dress is sinful. Can we sincerely say we are escaping from such condemned lusts by adorning ourselves in the immodest apparel of the world? Will we truly promote godliness by flocking to the beach rather than fleeing from it? Do we honestly believe we are edifying another when we assist him in his lust and sin? “Neither yield ye your members as instruments of unrighteousness unto sin: but yield yourselves unto God” (Rom. 6:13). Let us refuse to present our bodies as tools unto sin, and “abstain from fleshly lusts, which war against the soul” (1 Pet. 2:11). If you ever find that sale for “non-revealing, modest, loose fitting, godly swimsuits,” let me know.

Guardian of Truth XXXIV: 21, pp. 643-644
November 1, 1990

By Ron Halbrook

One of the steps taken by the elders to strengthen the church here in 1985 was an effort to reach the weak and erring before they fell away from Christ completely. When some new deacons were appointed, the specific assignments made to various deacons were discussed and reviewed, and a new task was divided among them all. A peg board was already in use to keep tabs on attendance patterns; at each service, every members pulls his peg and drops it in a box, and a deacon records each member’s attendance on a chart in a notebook. The members’ names were divided among the deacons as a new step, so that each deacon is responsible to check on anyone on his list who is absent. An announcement was made and the lists were posted matching the deacons with the other families in the church. Additional members are added to the lists as they joined themselves to the disciples here (Acts 9:26). If a person knows in advance he will be absent, he can call the appropriate deacon.

When a problem or pattern of absence appears, not only does the deacon try to help and encourage the person involved but also the matter is discussed in the regular meeting of elders and deacons. As a result, counsel is shared on how to best approach the matter and visits are made in an effort to resolve the problem and to help the person grow.

The deacons perform a wide range of tasks, many of them involving physical aspects of the work, but the fact is that there is an interplay between physical and spiritual aspects of the Lord’s work (study Acts 6:1-7). Deacons are selected on the basis of qualifications which reflect spiritual maturity (1 Tim. 3:8-13; Acts 6:1-7). Their office and work cannot encroach upon that of the eldership, but wise elders will find the skills and counsel of deacons to be a great asset in every aspect of the Lord’s work. This does not mean that deacons are “junior elders,” sharing the oversight and rule. Deacons are servants and helpers who minister under the oversight of elders. Elders need the help of such godly men to make their own leadership more effective.

Communication was vital to the effort to identify problems and strengthen the weak. The whole church had to understand the importance of this goal. In addition to public statements, teaching, and admonition, a letter was sent to each family seeking their help and prayers. The elders asked that the letter admit their own neglect in some aspects of dealing with the weak in the past. They wanted everyone to know that they were setting higher goals for themselves in the role of overseers, as well as for the whole church.

The result of communication with and through the evangelist, with and through the deacons, and with each family in the church was that everyone knew exactly what the goals were, what the plan of action was, and what was expected of everyone. The whole church began to pull together and the elders have continued to do a more effective job in helping the weak. This does not mean that we have no more weak Christians among us. It does mean that we are trying more earnestly to help them grow and to reach them before they fall away completely.

The letter which the elders sent as one phase of communications higher goals in this area of their work is published below.

Letter from the Elders to Every Member of the Church Here at West Columbia

Dear brother and sisters in Christ,

As elders, overseers, and shepherds, we bear two heavy responsibilities according to Hebrew 13:17. “Obey them that have the rule over you, and submit yourselves: for they watch for your souls, as they that must give account, that they may do it with joy, and not with grief: for that is unprofitable for you.”

First, we must “watch for your souls.” That means to watch with love and care for the well-being of each soul here. We watch for signs of growth and progress so that we may encourage you to continue in that direction. We also watch for signs of weakness and wavering so that we may help you to change your direction for the better. Every effort is for your profit and for your gain spiritually.

Second, we are responsible to give an account of our efforts to Christ himself. There will be great joy when we tell the story of the progress of those who are growing. We will have grief and sorrow when we must tell of those who wavered and then fell away. On that Last Great Day, we cannot profit you any longer.

We are constantly looking for ways to profit and help you more. As you know from your home life and other relationships, some acts of love are difficult and painful to perform, but they must be performed if the bonds of love are to grow. This letter speaks of some difficult and painful duties of love, but it will bear fruit for the good of us all if we can be united in doing what God teaches us to do. We ask for your prayers, your moral support, and your help in every possible way.

As elders we confess our neglect in following to completion God’s plan to strengthen the weak and to restore the fallen. There is the need for greater diligence in following every step of God’s plan, including the final withdrawal of fellowship. With God’s help and your help, we want to be better leaders in this area.

One of the danger signs in a Christian’s life is a lukewarm attitude toward the duty of assembling with the saints each time they meet (Heb. 10:25; Rev. 3:15-16). Such things as old age, sickness, and job requirements are not sinful; we do not have them in mind. But willful absence is sinful. Willful absence sears the conscience (1 Tim. 4:2), sets the wrong example (Matt. 18:6), and leads to other kinds of unfaithfulness (Gal. 5:19-21). After much exhortation and warning, the church must “withdraw from every brother that walketh disorderly” (1 Thess. 5:14; 2 Thess. 3:6).

We want to do a better job and encourage everyone to help us in calling, visiting, teaching, admonishing, and rebuking those who are willfully absent. When we see a Christian missing from our assembly, let us inquire where they are and contact them to see if they need our help in any way. Please expect someone to contact you when you are absent. You can help by getting the word to one of the elders or deacons if you get sick or when you know in advance you cannot be here. Any time you learn that a person is absent only a few times or is habitually absent, please help us to be more effective in reaching that person.

Some of you can help us by being more careful to pull your peg on the attendance board. With the appointment of new deacons shortly, we will divide the names or our members among the deacons so they can help us to stay in better touch with you about your attendance.

When a person obeys the gospel, he is asking Christ and the people of God to follow God’s plan completely if he begins to stumble or if he falls away. We fail in our duty to God and to our erring brother if we fail to do everything the Bible teaches in an effort to reach the erring. The church must continue in the relationship, fellowship, and process of working with these people until the point of a final withdrawal of fellowship. Final withdrawal is designed to bring the erring to repentance (1 Cor. 5:5), to assure the removal of the leaven of sin from the church (1 Cor. 5:6-7), and to cause others to fear (1 Tim. 5:20). Final withdrawal is a part of God’s plan and must not be neglected.

The church at West Columbia continues to have a great potential for good in the service of the Lord. Let us unite in love and patience toward the weak and the erring. Let us work closely with them as long as they show any desire to grow and to correct their lives. If there are spiritual problems in Your life and you are willing to talk with us, please contact us and we will get together with you. If you have any suggestions on this matter, let us know. May all of us unite in following every step of God’s plan regarding those who stumble or fall away. We ask the prayers and the help of every deacon, of all our teachers, of the evangelist, and of each member of the church.

With our love and care for each of you,

Signed Elders

Guardian of Truth XXXIV: 21, pp. 648-649
November 1, 1990

By Lynn D. Headrick

The title of this article is the wording of the headline over Ann Landers’ column in the Birmingham Post Herald of May 17, 1990. Her column reads as follows:

Dear Ann Landers: if anyone has the slightest doubt that we are living in a totally different world today, I challenge them to browse through the stationery store on the corner and check out beautiful cards for all occasions with the following messages:

Best wishes to My Dear Mother and Her Husband.

Greetings to my Wonderful Stepson.

Many Happy Returns to Dad and His New Wife.

Holiday Wishes to My Former Grandparents. I divorced your grandson, not you.

Congratulations on a Great Divorce!

Happy Anniversary to My Former In-Laws Who are Still in My Heart.

Best wishes to My Former Husband on His Birthday.

Happy Fourth of July to My Live-In Sweetheart.

Congratulations on Your Marriage. This one is sure to work. The third time is always a charm.

Indeed, these messages on greeting cards mirror a great change in our society. As Ms. Landers says, “We are living in a totally different world today.” God spake to Moses concerning the people saying, “Oh that there were such a heart in them, that they would fear me, and keep all my commandments always, that is might be well with them, and with their children forever!” (Dent. 5:29) Things are not well in marriage relationships in our society because people do not keep God’s commandments which are for our good (Deut. 10:13).

Have ye not read, that he who made them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, for this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh? So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God hath joined together, let man put asunder” (Matt. 19:4-6).

Commercial greeting card publishers will not publish a card which will not sell for a profit. There must be a demand for a card which congratulates one on what is termed a “Great Divorce!” How desperately we need to teach young people that marriage is to be entered into with the idea that they will remain together until death. When problems in the marriage relationship arise, the thinking should be toward settling them immediately and there should not be the idea of getting a divorce. God said, “I hate putting away” (Mal. 2:16).

There would be no demand for cards which congratulate mother on her new husband and father on his new wife if every mother would teach the younger women to love their husbands (Tit. 2) and do so by way of personal example. If every husband would love his wife (Eph. 5:28) he would never receive a card to congratulate him on his new wife.

Social workers, juvenile court judges, school teachers and administrators and, indeed, all who think about the well-being of children know that divorce has a traumatic effect upon children. If God’s laws were followed parents would stay together and love their children. As you read this article determine in your own mind that there will be absolutely no need for your having to purchase and send a card to a stepson or to former grandparents, or to former in-laws because you have been selfish and divorced your partner or because you have married someone with whom you have no scriptural right to live.

Even the casual observer knows that cards which send greetings to one’s live-in sweetheart are very marketable because of the great number of people who live in such a situation. Our society uses a polite term like “my live-in sweetheart” but God calls this sinful arrangement by the term “fornication.” May God help God-fearing young people to overcome any temptation to live in this manner. “Flee fornication” (1 Cor. 6:18) because it will cause the loss of your soul.

We need to teach, teach, and do some more teaching concerning God’s marriage laws. They are for our good. Much heartache is spared by doing the will of God. Brethren, uphold the hands of Bible class teachers, preachers, elders and faithful parents who teach the truth on marriage. Little children need to memorize John 3:16 and Acts 2:38 but now let us include Matthew 19:4-6. May God give us the courage to live above the world in all areas of life.

Guardian of Truth XXXIV: 21, pp. 641, 663
November 1, 1990

By Glenn Seaton

I for one have heard about all the quotes from psychologists and educators in preaching that I can stand. One elder told me, “We finally told our preacher that we wanted to hear less about the university and more about the Bible.” Later the same elders told me that his preaching really improved “for a few weeks.” Notice this point from Pulpit Helps:

Biblical truth is theocentric (God-centered) whereas psychological counseling systems are anthropocentric (man-centered). The focus of biblical truth is God. The focus of Psychology is self: self-esteem, self-worth, self-image, self-love, self-awareness, and self-actualization.

With centers of importance that are opposite (God or self) would you expect God’s will in believers’ lives to be helped, or hindered, by integrating the theories of psychological counseling systems with God’s Word?

The fact is that many preachers are simply not getting the job done. If you cut through all the Greek words and statistics and cute stories and motivation hype and psychology and university stories you’d find little Bible truth that will save a man’s soul or expose error. What a shame!

Guardian of Truth XXXIV: 21, p. 652
November 1, 1990