Truth Magazine

By David A. Padfield

Who among us has not pondered the great question, “Will I recognize my friends in heaven?” While the Bible does not directly ask this question, the human heart does. In death’s dark hour, can I comfort the relatives of those who “died in the Lord” with the hope of a future reunion in heaven? Or, when the undertaker closes the casket, is this truly the hour of final separation? It appears as though the Scriptures assume we will know and recognize one another in heaven.

The great patriarch Abraham died at the age of 175. Moses records his death with these words: “Then Abraham breathed his last and died in a good old age, an old man and full of years, and was gathered to his people. And his sons Isaac and Ishmael buried him in the cave of Machpelah. . . ” (Gen. 25:8-9a). Notice the sequence: he died, was gathered to his people and then his body was buried in the cave of Machpelah. Though the tomb was new, somehow Abraham was now with his people.

This phrase, “gathered to his people,” is found recorded at the death of many Old Testament worthies, such as:

– Ishmael (Gen. 25:17)

– Isaac (Gen. 35:29)

– Jacob (Gen. 49:33)

– Aaron (Num. 20:24)

– Moses (Deut. 33:50)

– Josiah (2 Kgs. 22:8)

The destiny of Moses is further described in Deuteronomy 31:16 when God says, “Behold, you will rest with your fathers.” This could not possibly refer to his physical body, for it was buried “in a valley in the land of Moab, opposite Beth Peor” (Deut. 34:6).

Not only do we read of individuals being “gathered” to their people, but after the death of Joshua we find an entire “generation had been gathered to their fathers” (Judg. 2:10).

But what does it mean to be gathered to our people? “Gathered” (Hb. acaph) is defined as “to be collected, gathered together . . . used of entering into Hades, where the Hebrews regarded their ancestors as being gathered together. This gathering to one’s fathers, or one’s people is distinguished both from death and burial” (Gesenius’ Hebrew And Chaldee Lexicon, p. 626). William Wilson commented, “To be gathered to his fathers, is a peculiar phrase deserving notice; it is distinguished from death which precedes, and from burial of the body which follows: Gen. xxv. 8; xxxv. 29; 2 Kings xxii. 20. It seems to denote the being received by his own people, or among them. We read in the N.T. of being received into Abraham’s bosom, or of sitting down with Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob, in the kingdom of heaven, as at a feast; so that to be gathered to his own people, is to be with them in joy or torment in Hades” (Wilson’s Old Testament Word Studies, p. 182).

Abraham has been “gathered to his people” until that day when his dust shall live again at the sound of the last trumpet, and all the buried dead shall hear the voice of the Son of Man. When Isaac and Ishmael were “gathered to their people,” did they recognize their own father, Abraham? It would be foolish to deny they did.

It was a source of comfort when the prophetess Huldah told Josiah he would be “gathered to his fathers” (2 Kgs. 22:20). But what comfort would there be if he could not recognize his “fathers”? Was he to dwell in eternity, among his own family, as a total stranger?

When we speak of future recognition, some skeptic will usually ask, “Would you be happy if you were in heaven knowing some of your friends were not there?” Instead of helping our problem, this question increases it. If I can not recognize any of my loved ones in heaven, then I would be forever uncertain if any of them made it there! I would have to worry about all of them. Furthermore, this question assumes that I would want to overlook the manner of life these people led while alive. If they are lost, it will be because they did not desire heaven enough to quit the practice of sin. Yes, we will be saddened by the loss of some, but I always throughout this is why “God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying; and there shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away” (Rev. 21:4).

Another objection sometimes raised is found in Matthew 22:30. There, Jesus tells us that in the resurrection we will neither marry, nor be given in marriage, but be like the angels of heaven. But this passage proves our point. The angels of heaven certainly know and recognize each other. We will not have a physical marriage there, for we will be married to the Lamb of God (Rev. 19:7).

The first child from the union of David and Bathsheba died after a week of suffering (2 Sam. 12:15-23). Grief stricken David, with his child yet unburied, said, “Can I bring him back again? I shall go to him, but he shall not return to me.” What comfort could David have of being with his child again if he could not distinguish his child from mine?

After the final judgment I fully expect to “see Abraham and Isaac and Jacob and all the prophets in the kingdom of God” (Luke 13:28). I shall see them in the same way I shall see Jesus (1 John 3:2) and his Father (Rev. 22:4). The same Greek word (optomai) is used in all three verses.

Congregations often sing the beautiful song, “Shall We Gather At The River?” In it, we ask our brothers and sisters in Christ to meet by the river of life (Rev. 22:1) when our journey here is completed.

Knowing we shall recognize one another in heaven, let us labor diligently to increase our acquaintances there. And as another song suggests,

“If we never meet again this side of heaven,

As we struggle through this world and its strife,

There’s another meeting place somewhere in heaven,

By the side of the river of life.”

Guardian of Truth XXXII: 19, pp. 580, 597
October 6, 1988

By Hoyt H. Houchen

Question: Please explain Exodus 20:1, 34:7,- Numbers 14:18 and Deuteronomy 5:9, 10 in which is found the clause: “visiting the iniquities of the fathers upon their children, upon the third and upon the fourth generation. . . . ” Do you understand it to mean that characteristics of my great great grandparents are passed on to me, but my little boy will not have them? What is the teaching, if it is not that?

Reply: The word “visiting” in the clause found in the above verses is a participle, translated from a primary root Hebrew word paqad, which means “to visit (with friendly or hostile intent)” (Strong’s Exhaustive Concordance of the Bible, Hebrew and Chaldee Dictionary, p. 96). The word sometimes refers to the bestowing of God’s blessings (Gen. 50:24; Ruth 1:6; Jer. 29:10; etc.). In the verses of our inquiry, however, the word “visiting” refers to punishing. In this sense the word means: “to go to any one, in a hostile sense, to fall upon, to attack . . . chiefly used of God chastening the wicked” (Gesenius’ Hebrew-Chaldee Lexicon to the 0. T., Samuel P. Tregelles, p. 686). The Hebrew word paqad is so used in other passages in the Old Testament (see Ex. 32:34; Psa. 89:32; Isa. 23:17; Jer. 14:10; Lam. 4:22; Hos. 8:13; etc.).

The clause, “visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children, upon the third and fourth generation” does not teach hereditary traits (characteristics), nor does it teach hereditary depravity. There was a proverb in Israel: “The fathers have eaten sour grapes and the children’s teeth are set on edge” (Jer. 31:29, 30; Ezek. 18:2-4). The Israelites had misused this proverb by applying it to the spiritual relationship, that the sins of the parents were transmitted to the children. While it is true that sometimes children suffer the consequences of sins committed by their ancestors, each individual is responsible for his own sins. This truth was stated in the law of Moses, “The fathers shall not be put to death for the children, neither shall the children be put to death for the fathers: every man shall be put to death for his own sins” (Deut. 24:16). This is confirmed in the verses following the proverb cited above. In the Jeremiah text, the proverb is followed by the words, “But every one shall die for his own iniquity: every man that eateth the sour grapes, his teeth shall be set on edge” (Jer. 31:30). The misapplication of the proverb is also corrected and the truth stated following the proverb in the Ezekiel passage. “As I live, saith the Lord Jehovah, ye shall not have occasion any more to use this proverb in Israel. Behold, all souls are mine; as the soul of the father, so also the soul of the son is mine: the soul that sinneth, it shall die” (Ezek. 18:3, 4). Also, we should observe that infants are not accountable for sin. Sin is the transgression of God’s law (1 Jn. 3:4). Infants have not transgressed the law, thus they are not sinners. Only the accountable who commit sin are guilty of sin. So, the children of the third and fourth generations who were to be punished by Jehovah were accountable offspring.

We should observe at this point that while children (including infants) may suffer consequences of sin, although not guilty of sin, all affliction is not necessarily due to sin. When Jesus saw a man blind from his birth, his disciples asked him, “Rabbi, who sinned, this man, or his parents, that he should be born blind? Jesus answered, Neither did this man sin, nor his parents” (Jn. 9:1-3).

Punishment was to be inflicted upon the third and fourth generations. The background for this pronouncement is based upon the idolatrous practice of the fathers. God does not tolerate idolatry. He declared in the second command of the decalogue, “Thou shalt not make unto thee a graven image, nor any likeness of any thing that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth: thou shalt not bow down thyself to them, nor serve them” (Ex. 20:4, 5). Then follows the clause: “visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the third and fourth generations of them that hate me.” The iniquity of the fathers was idolatry. Since God does not punish children for their fathers’ sins, the meaning of the clause is that God punishes the children who perpetuate the sins of their fathers. The punishment is restricted to the children who would continue in the sins of their fathers. The fathers would live to see the punishment of those of their children who would continue to commit sin. We are not to suppose that the punishment was only to extend through the fourth generation. The punishment would continue indefinitely, just as long as the children continued to sin. Men can live long enough to see their great great grandchildren. The fathers themselves would be punished, in part at least, by witnessing the punishment upon their offspring for continuing in the sin which they themselves had committed.

Although the context of the pronouncement is the sin of idolatry, the general principle holds true of whatever iniquities would be committed. The children would be punished for whatever sins they continued to commit. This idea is expressed in the Aramaic Version. Exodus 20:5 reads: “I the Lord thy God am a jealous God visiting the iniquities of the fathers upon the transgresiing children, unto the third and fourth generation, of those who hate me, when the children follow the iniquities of their fathers.” Interestingly also is the wording of this verse in the Targum Onkelos, the official version of Babylonian Jews on the Pentateuch. It was produced in the second or third century A.D. and authoritative no later than the fourth century A.D. It harmonizes with the Hebrew text of the verse until the last part where it inserts the phrase, “as long as the sons continue to sin after their fathers.” At least, this was the understanding of the verse by many of the Jews in the early centuries

The verse following should also be considered: “and showing loving-kindness unto thousands of them that love me and keep my commandments” (Ex. 20:6). Two words are contrasted: hate and love. God punishes the disobedient and he blesses the obedient. We do not believe, as some do, that this interpretation reduces the verses to a mere truism, namely that the guilty sons would be punished as well as the guilty fathers (see S. Clarke, The Bible Commentary, F. C. Cook, editor, Vol. 1, p. 332). That God only punished the descendants of fathers who continued in the wickedness of their fathers is illustrated by some Bible examples. Manasseh, for instance, was an evil king and God pronounced a sentence of destruction upon Jerusalem because of his sins (2 Kgs. 21:10-15). Please note, however, that Manasseh had also made Judah sin with his idols (vv. 11, also 22:16, 17). Judah was punished because she also sinned. But Manasseh’s grandson, Josiah, was a good king and he was not punished (2 Kgs. 22:18-20). Jehu was also a sinful king (2 Kgs. 10:29) and his great grandson (third generation) was slain because “he did that which was evil in the sight of Jehovah, as his fathers had done” (2 Kgs. 15:9).

A prominent lesson in this study is the two-sided nature of God. He is love (1 Jn. 4:8), and has no pleasure in his punitive actions. He desires that all men be saved (Ezek. 18:23; 1 Tim. 2:3; 2 Pet. 3:9; etc.) While we recognize that he punishes evildoers, let us ever be conscious of his love, grace and mercy. As we in America enjoy the rich heritage left to us by our forefathers who blazed the trails, sacrificed, toiled, fought, bled and died, may we also be mindful of the multitude of God’s rich spiritual blessings which he has bestowed upon us through the death of his dear precious Son, Jesus. May we think of the hope of eternal life afforded us through the shedding of Christ’s blood and our obedience of his will. Truly God has poured out a multitude of blessings upon the thousands who love him and keep his commandments. To love God is to keep his commandments (1 Jn. 5:3). He punishes those who hate him (Heb. 12:29). He shows loving kindness to the thousands who love him. “Behold then the goodness and the severity of God” (Rom. 11:22).

Guardian of Truth XXXII: 19, pp. 581-582
October 6, 1988

By R.J. Evans

In Matthew 5:44, Jesus commands, “Love your enemies. ” Viewing this command in its context, Jesus had reference to those who would be considered as “personal enemies,” because they are defined in the parallel command as those “which despitefully use you, and persecute you. ” Hence, the “enemies” here are those who literally hate and do injury to us.

The meaning of this passage often becomes nebulous to many, especially when there is a misunderstanding of the term “love. ” The word “love” in this verse comes from the Greek word agapao. This is love in the “social or moral sense” (Strong’s Greek Dictionary of the New Testament, p. 7). To love as commanded in Matthew 5:44 is to do good, or to seek the highest welfare of others. It is in this sense that we are to love our enemies. We may not be able to make the mean criminal, the malicious liar, or the slanderous fellow our close personal friends, but we can love them all, that is, see what they need and work for them for their good. This love is the kind that flows out in deeds of kindness. God is our example in expressing such love, for in the next verse Jesus says, “That ye may be the children of your Father which is in heaven: for he maketh his sun to rise on the evil and on the good, and sendeth rain on the just and on the unjust” (Matt. 5:45). Jesus illustrated this principle of love in that he sought the highest good for his enemies – he even prayed for them while they were crucifying him (Lk. 23:34). The apostle Paul tells us to clovercome evil with good” (Rom. 12:21). The kind words Abraham Lincoln expressed toward his enemies often brought him rebukes from some of his friends. One lady said she wondered how he could speak kindly of his enemies, when he should rather destroy them. “But, Madam,” replied Lincoln, “do I not destroy them when I make them my friends?” (The Humorous Mr. Lincoln, Keith W. Jennison, p. 142)

Still another Greek term for “love” in the Scripture is phileo, as is found in John 5:20: “For the Father loveth the Son, and sheweth him all things that himself doeth: and he will shew him greater works than these, that ye may marvel.” This love is to “have affection for,” denoting personal attachment, as a matter of sentiment or feeling (Strong’s Greek Dictionary of the New Testament, pp. 75-76). This would be the emotional, passionate love that exists between husband and wife, parents and children, etc. We are not commanded to love our most deadly foe in this sense. In fact, I would say that it would be impossible for me to love my enemies in the same sense I love my wife and children. The point is, though, we are not commanded or expected to love our enemies in that sense. We are commanded to love them in the sense that we seek their welfare and have no ill will towards them.

We often hear it expressed, “Hate a bad man’s actions, but do not hate the bad man.” This simply means we are to hate sin, but not the sinner. You may ask, “How can I hate what a man does and not hate the man?” Has it ever occurred to you that there is one person to whom you have been doing this all your life – namely yourself! No matter how much we detest our own mistakes, faults, such as cowardice, greed, conceit, etc., we go on loving ourselves. There has never been much difficulty in continuing to care for yourself, has it? Can’t the same be true with regard to others? Jesus said, “Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself” (Matt. 22:39).

Yes, we can and must obey the Lord’s command to “love your enemies.” It involves our deep concern for their spiritual welfare, blessing and praying for them – even when they do us harm. May the Lord help us “increase our faith” concerning this matter.

Guardian of Truth XXXII: 19, pp. 579, 599
October 6, 1988

By Mike Willis

Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting. And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not. As we have therefore opportunity, let us do good to all men, especially unto them who are of the household of faith (Gal. 6:7-10).

This year has been a disaster for the farmers in the Midwest. Because of a drought at the time corn was tasseling, the crops will produce much less than average yield this year. Some farmers will lose not only a year’s wages, but also the cost of planting their crops. Some will be forced into bankruptcy; others will become disheartened and quit.

Paul used the metaphor of farming in teaching the lesson “whatsoever a man soweth that shall he also reap.” In verse 9 of the text before us, he was concerned that some Christians would become disheartened, like some modern farmers, and quit. Consequently, he exhorted, “Let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not.” Please consider this text with me.

Christians Should Be Busy In Well Doing

Man has a choice regarding how to spend his life. He can use his life to “sow to the flesh” or “sow to the Spirit.” We are free moral beings. However, God’s will is that we devote our lives to sowing to the Spirit. Just as Jesus “went about doing good” (Acts 10:38), Christians should spend their lives doing good. We are created for good works (Eph. 2: 10) and are exhorted to maintain good works (Tit. 1:16; 2:14; 3:1,8).

There is a limited time for sowing to the Spirit, just as farmers have a limited time to plant. Jesus taught as much when he said, “I must work the works of him, that sent me, while it is day; the night cometh, when no man can work” (Jn. 9:4). We have a limited time on earth to sow to the Spirit. There comes a time when it is too late to plant.

Reasons For Persevering In Well Doing

1. You reap what you sow. The eternal reward of heaven, life everlasting, is prepared for those who have spent their lifetime making choices to serve God by doing good. The eternal punishment of hell is reserved for those who have made a lifetime of decisions to sow to the flesh. We need to be reminded that a person cannot live the life of the wicked and die the death of the righteous; he cannot sow to the flesh and reap life everlasting.

2. To glorify God. A person should persevere in doing good in order that God may be glorified. God is glorified by a man’s loyal obedience to his will. Jesus said, “Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven” (Matt. 5:16). Our age thinks that God is glorified by mouthing “Praise the Lord.” Religious broadcasters have taught this by example; nearly every other word is “praise the Lord.” One praises the Lord by how he lives. Although there is nothing wrong with saying “praise the Lord” or singing a hymn exhorting us to “praise the Lord,” we need to be reminded that God is praised by our lives.

3. To make the church grow. We need to persevere in well doing to make the church grow numerically and spiritually. If we become disheartened and quit serving God, the church will decrease in size. Many congregations are suffering from disheartened saints who are “keeping house” for the Lord. The result is a dead church which does little or nothing except go through the five acts of worship on Sunday morning, Sunday night, and Wednesday night; even this is done with little enthusiasm and zeal. Such a church cannot influence others to obey the gospel.

4. To secure our own salvation. Paul exhorted, “Work out your own salvation with fear and trembling” (Phil. 2:12). My reaping everlasting life is contingent upon my first sowing to the Spirit.

Causes Of Weariness In Well Doing

Despite these facts, saints become weary in well doing. If we can identify some of the causes of becoming weary in well doing, perhaps we can better overcome the temptation to quit sowing to the Spirit.

1. Conflict with the ungodly world. Some people become tired of the continuous conflict with the ungodly world and give up the fight. They surrender to the world. I have experienced this feeling. While attending seminary in Indianapolis, I got tired of the continuous conflict with infidel teachers,who did not believe in miracles, the inspiration of the Bible, hell, etc. I was glad when I completed my degree program so that I would not have to be in that conflict rive days a week.

2. Ingratitude of those we serve. Sometimes we become disheartened because those who serve fail to express appreciation for that service. They are like the nine lepers whom Jesus healed who never returned to express gratitude (Lk. 17:11-19).

3. Indifference of others who should be serving. Some become discouraged and ready to quit because other Christians are not committed to serving. They do not have enough interest to attend Bible class, much less be involved in the work God has given us.

4. The size of the task before us. Sometimes we are reluctant to begin because of the size of the task before us. I have a stack of correspondence which needs to be filed; I have not begun because of how big the stack is. Sometimes when we perceive how much needs to be done in the local church, we hesitate to begin.

5. Opposition to plans to work. Where the local church is successful, the devil will raise up opposition. When this opposition comes, some will quit, not persevering in doing good. Not all opposition comes from without the church; some brethren oppose every suggestion for doing good saying, “This will never work” or “we tried this before and it did not work.”

6. Fatigue. Some experience what has been labeled as “burnout.” Someone observed that 90 percent of the work in the local church is done by 10 percent of the people. Because of the heavy demands on the time of the 10 percent, some quit.

7. Failure to see results. The failure to see positive results causes some to quit. The farmer throws in the towel because the crop did not produce. Christians quit because they do not see any results from their work. First of all, we need to be reminded that the harvest is “the end of the world” (Matt. 13:39) at the “resurrection of the just” (Lk. 14:14). Consequently, we should plant the seed and patiently await the harvest (Jas. 5:7). Secondly, we live among men who have been hardened in their sin by materialism, sensuality, and indifference; our age more nearly resembles that of an Ezekiel (2:3-8; 3:6-9) or Jeremiah than that of the apostles on Pentecost. Consequently, we should not expect to see the same number baptized in our age as they saw in theirs. Thirdly, we need to remember that our job is to plant and water; God’s work is to give the increase (1 Cor. 3:6-9). God does not demand that we baptize a lot of people; he commands us to be faithful (1 Cor. 4:2).

Remedy For Weariness In Well Doing

1. Prayer. If you are becoming weary or have already quit, recognize your sin and confess it to God in prayer. Ask his forgiveness and resolve to quit quitting. Ask God’s help to overcome the temptation to quit.

2. Bible study. The word of God is designed to give us “patience (hupomone. perseverance) and comfort” (Rom. 15:4). If you lack perseverance, you probably have not been feeding your soul the word of God. Recognize that you must feed on God’s word to find the spiritual strength to survive.

3. Brotherly encouragement. One of the purposes of the worship assemblies is “to provoke one another to love and good works” (Heb. 10:24). If you see yourself becoming weary in well doing, do not begin missing the worship assembly. There is never a time that you need the brotherly encouragement of other Christians more than at this time. Dropping out of the worship assemblies is taking yourself away from one of the supports which God has given us to help us persevere. Find a Christian friend to whom you can talk and with whom you can pray, to help you through this time of weariness in well doing.

4. Trust in God’s providence. If the circumstances look unfavorable, accept the present as being in the hands of a just and loving God. God will work out his own will in his own way. My fretting about matters will not change them. I need to busy myself doing God’s will and trust him to control the future.

Conclusion

As Paul concluded his chapter on the resurrection, he exhorted, “Therefore, my beloved brethren, be ye steadfast, unmoveable, always abounding in the work of the Lord, forasmuch as ye know that your labor is not in vain in the Lord” (1 Cor. 15:58). “And let us not be weary in well doing: for in due season we shall reap, if we faint not” (Gal.6:9).

Guardian of Truth XXXII: 19, pp. 578, 598-599
October 6, 1988