“Put Away,” “Put Asunder,” “Divorce”

By Hayse Reneau

Harmony of 1 Corinthians 7, Bringing Passages Referring To The Same Subjects Together

To The Married

(1) “Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. . . . (7-9) For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that. I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, It is good for them if they abide even as 1. But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn. . . . (17) But as God hath distributed to every man, as the Lord hath called everyone, so let him walk. And so ordain I in all churches. . . . (28) But and if thou marry thou hast not sinned; and if a virgin marry, she hath not sinned. Nevertheless such shall have trouble in the flesh: but I spare you.. . . . (32-35) But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction. . . . (39-40) The wife is bound by the law as long as her husband liveth; but if her husband be dead, she is at liberty to be married to whom she will; only in the Lord. But she is happier if she so abide, after my judgment [i.e. unmarried]: and I think also that I have the Spirit of God. . . . (25,36-38) Now concerning virgins I have no commandment of the Lord: yet I give my judgment, as one that hath obtained mercy of the Lord to be faithful…. But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin [by not giving her in marriage], if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry. Nevertheless he that standeth stedfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power over his own will, and hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin, doeth well. So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better. . . .

Purpose Of Marriage, In Addition To Procreation

(2-4) “Nevertheless, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife, and let every woman have her own husband. Let the husband render unto his wife due benevolence: and likewise also the wife unto the husband. The wife hath not power of her own body, but the husband: and likewise also the husband hath not power of his own body, but the wife. . .

Sexual Duty In Marriage

(5, 10,11) “Defraud ye not one the other except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency. . . . And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the wife depart from her husband: But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried [apart], or be reconciled [return] to her husband: and let not the husband put away his wife.

Christians Married To Unbelievers

(12-16) “But to the rest speak 1, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away. And the woman which hath a husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him. For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy. But if the unbelieving depart, let him depart. A brother or sister is not under bondage in such cases: but God hath called us to peace. For what knowest thou, O wife, whether thou shalt save thy husband? or how knowest thou, O man, whether thou shalt save they wife?. . . .

Don’t Obey This Ordinance Of The Jews Trying To Escape Distress

(17-19) “But as God hath distributed to every man, as the Lord hath called everyone, so let him walk. And so ordain I in all churches. Is any man called being circumcised? Let him not become uncircumcised. Is any called in uncircumcision? Let him not be circumcised. Circumcision is nothing, but the keeping of the commandments of God. . . .

Suffering Is Same For Freemen And Servants

(20-24) “Let every man abide in the same calling wherein he was called. Art thou called being a servant? Care not for it: but if thou mayest be made free, use it rather. For he that is called in the Lord, being a servant is the Lord’s freeman: likewise also he that is called being free, is Christ’s servant. Ye are bought with a price; be not ye the servants of men. Brethren, let every man, wherein he is called, therein abide with God . . . .

Fathers Withholding Daughters From Marriage

(25,36-38) “Now concerning virgins I have no commandment of the Lord: yet I give my judgment, as one that hath obtained mercy of the Lord to be faithful. . . . But if any man think that he behaveth himself uncomely toward his virgin, if she pass the flower of her age, and need so require, let him do what he will, he sinneth not: let them marry.

Nevertheless he that standeth steadfast in his heart, having no necessity, but hath power over his own will, and hath so decreed in his heart that he will keep his virgin, doeth well. So then he that giveth her in marriage doeth well; but he that giveth her not in marriage doeth better. . .

Try To Ignore This Present Distress, It Won’t Last Forever

(29-31) “But this I say brethren, the time is short: it remaineth, that both they that have wives be as though they had not; and they that weep, as though they wept not; and they that rejoice, as though they rejoiced not; and they had buy, as though they possessed not; and they that use the world, as not abusing it: for the fashion of this world passeth away.

(26) “I suppose therefore that this is good for the present distress, I say, that it is good for a man [person] so to be.”

Guardian of Truth XXX: 8, pp. 230-231
April 17, 1986

Strength In Diversity

By Aude McKee

In recent years, we have heard a great deal about “Unity in Diversity.” This doctrine was designed to get people to ignore differing attitudes toward authority and was an appeal for religious unity in spite of fundamental differences. The purpose of this lesson is to show that God can take people of vastly different backgrounds, personalities, educational attainments, etc., and use such to accomplish His purposes.

The Lord’s apostles are listed in Matthew 10:24, Mark 3:13-19, Luke 6:13-16 and Acts 1:13. As you study these names you will notice some variations. Peter is also referred to as Simon and Cephas, Bartholomew is also called Nathanael, Thomas and Didymas are the same person, and Levi is another name for Matthew. You will also observe that there are two men listed as James. One is identified as the brother of John and the other is the son of Alphaeus or the less. Simon, to be sure we don’t confuse him with Simon Peter, is Zelotes or the Canaanite. Finally, the author of the book of Jude, is also called Thaddaeus and Lebbaeus.

About some of these men very little is known. James, the son of Alphaeus, was a short fellow and so was nick-named “the less.” We probably would have called him “Shorty.” But it didn’t matter to Jesus if a person was fat or skinny, tall or short, handsome or ugly. The Lord looks on the heart, not on the outward appearance (1 Sam. 16:7). Andrew, Peter’s brother, was a fisherman by occupation. He had been a disciple of John (John 1:35-42). The greatest recorded thing Andrew ever did was to bring his brother to the Lord. He was not one of the “inner circle” and yet there is never a hint of resentment in Andrew’s heart. Nathanael was a man of sterling character (John 1:43-51) and this is all the information we have about him. Jude is mentioned only in the gospels with the exception of the book he authored, and all we know about Philip we learn from John’s gospel. Philip was a very practical man. When he told Nathanael that he had found Jesus of Nazareth, the one about whom Moses and the prophetshad written, Nathanael’s response was, “Can any good thing come out of Nazareth?” Philip didn’t make any extended and complicated arguments to convince Nathanael but he simply said, “Come and see.” When Jesus saw a hungry multitude He asked Philip where they could buy food to feed them. Philip’s reply was that it would take a common laborer 200 days to earn enough to feed a crowd like that (John 6:1-14). Just here a question is in order. What role did these five little-known men play in the growth of the kingdom of God and the salvation of souls? If we are prone to answer “little” or “none” we could be making a sad mistake. The book of Acts is a record of some of the work of some of the apostles. We ought not to be guilty of assuming that those who received the most publicity were the most important. John 13:1-17 teaches us that the Lord does not measure greatness by the same rod we often use.

Other apostles were much more prominent and they better illustrate the diversity found among these men. James and John were fishermen by trade and this business was not an easy way to make money. Kingdom business also requires a lot of hard work, exposure to bad weather, etc., and so they were prepared for much they would have to face. These boys were from a well-to-do family (note “servants” in Mark 1:20), yet when Jesus called they left a profitable family business and became as poor as their master. James and John were part of what we have sometimes called the “inner circle.” These two, along with Peter, were allowed in the room when Jairus’ daughter was raised from the dead (Mark 5:2243), they were present at the transfiguration (Matt. 17:1-9), and were nearest the Lord in Gethsemane (Matt. 26:36-46). Of all the apostles, none had such a transformation of character as these two. They had an inordinate desire for power (Mark 10:35-45) and they had a fiery temperament. On one occasion, they were ready to bring fire from heaven and consume those who opposed their Lord (Luke 9:51-56), and so it is no surprise that Jesus nick-named them “sons of thunder” (Mark 3:17). James only lived about ten years following Pentecost – he was put to death by Herod (Acts 12:1-2).

Matthew was a publican – a tax collector for Rome. Natives of each province were appointed to collect duties on all merchandise and they were encouraged by Rome to overcharge, bring false charges in order to collect bribes, etc. When you consider that the Jews were at the mercy of their own countrymen and, in addition, convinced that they ought not to pay taxes at all, you can understand why tax collectors were so despised. Jesus met Matthew at the tax office (Matt. 9:9) and simply said, “Follow Me.” What a great thing it would be if the invitation of Jesus today was as effective in the lives of more people.

Simon was a member of a group of super-patriots called Zealots. This party was organized during the days of the Maccabbees and survived until 70 A.D. They adhered strictly to the law and endeavored, even by violence, to prevent violations of their religion by foreign powers. These were the people who continually advocated armed rebellion against Rome and were largely responsible for starting the conflict that resulted in the destruction of Jerusalem. As we think about these men making the decision to follow Jesus, we need to remember that they had no promise of material reward. They were converted to Christ. They left behind all that was sinful but retained the grand and noble traits of character that especially fitted them for service in the kingdom of heaven.

Peter was usually the spokesman for the twelve and it is interesting that his name appears first in the listings of the apostles. He is also the central figure in the book of Acts up to chapter 13. Peter was an impulsive man. He was as different from Philip and Thomas as day and night. Peter would speak or act and then think about it later. At the transfiguration (Matt. 17:1-9), when he walked on water (Matt. 14:22-23), at the feet-washing (John 13:2-17) and at the arrest of Jesus (John 18:1 -11), this trait of character can be seen so clearly. Then just before Jesus was arrested, He told the apostles that they would all be offended that night but Peter was quick to deny any such conduct on his part (Matt. 26:31-35). A little later, though, he had to “eat his words” with bitter tears.

Thomas was a cautious man. He was not one to believe or act without sufficient evidence. You can see this in John 14:1-6 and John 20:19-31. He is sometimes nick-named “doubting Thomas” but when the evidence was there, he was a staunch believer. In fact, at the time Jesus’ life was in real danger, Thomas was ready to die with him (John 11:8,16).

One man’s name lives in infamy. We can’t hear of Judas Iscariot without thinking of treachery, deceit and depravity. Judas and Esau must have been spiritual cousins. Both sold their “birthright” – Esau for one meal and Judas for about $24.00. Judas held a place of trust among the twelve. He had miraculous power (Matt. 10:1) and he was the treasurer of the group (John 12:6), but he allowed Satan to enter his heart (Luke 22:3). He voluntarily followed the devil and put teaching like Luke 12:15 and Matthew 5:8 out of his mind. But the great tragedy of his life was not his sins but his unwillingness to repent. It has been said that repentance is the most difficult command God ever gave, and no doubt that is true. In Matthew 27:1-5, we are told that when Judas saw that Jesus was condemned, he had second thoughts about his agreement but there was nothing he could do to undo the consequences of his action. If godly sorrow filled his heart, he would have taken the course Peter took. Peter went out, “wept bitterly,” and was forgiven, but Judas “went and hanged himself.” Someone has observed that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.

Jesus’ apostles were fishermen, government workers, political activists. Some were respected members of the community and some were despised. They came from the rich and poor, from the lettered and the unlearned. But Jesus could take this diverse group and mold a body that could carry the gospel to the world. It is no less true today in the Lord’s church. It has been said that meekness is harnessed strength and often the very traits of character that get us into serious difficulties, can be harnessed and made to contribute to the salvation of souls. There is strength in diversity!

Guardian of Truth XXX: 8, pp. 225, 248
April 17, 1986

Indictments Against Pentacostalism

By Ron Daly

The necessity of exposing error is abundantly taught in Scripture (cf. 2 Tim. 4:1-5; 1 Jn. 4:1; Rev. 2.2; Tit. 1:10-11). Preachers of the gospel have the God-given responsibility to boldly speak out against all error, in the church and out! Therefore, I presently address myself to bringing indictments against Pentacostalism.

Pentecostal churches no no right to exist. They are a part of denominationalism, a state of religious division which is antagonistic toward the unity demanded in the New Testament. Denominationalism, of which Pentecostalism is a part, is the very opposite of all Christ prayed for in John 17:11,20-21. Hence, Pentecostalism is not authorized to exist, for it is a “plant which shall be rooted up” (Matt. 15:13).

Nowhere in the New Testament do you read of a “Pentecostal Church,” “United Pentecostal Church,” or “Pentecostal Holiness Church.” These are not given in the New Testament Scriptures as designations for the church Jesus built (Matt. 16:18). Inasmuch as the New Testament church is never called by “Pentecostal Church,” “United Pentecostal Church,” or “Pentecostal Holiness Church” is proof defacto that to designate or describe the church as such is to fail “to speak as the oracles of God” (1 Pet. 4:11; 1 Cor. 4:6; Col. 3:17). To fail to “speak where the Bible speaks, and to be silent where the Bible is silent” is sin!

Pentecostalism is a religion founded chiefly upon emotionalism, not Scripture! It is not uncommon to hear Pentecostals say, “I do not care what you say, I know what the Lord is doing for me,” or “I do not care what the Bible says, I know what I feel in my heart.” Some have even said, “I would not take a stack of Bibles for what I feel within my heart.”, thus, Pentecostalism is a false religion of subjectivism, emotionalism, and dire ignorance of the Scriptures! Man has no right to trust in his own feelings apart from divine revelation (cf. Prov. 14:12; Isa. 55:8-9; Jer. 10:23). Wherever emotions rule, ignorance is usually very prominent. Pentecostalism stresses “personal testimonies,” “preacher bear-say,” and “inner feelings and leading of the Spirit” above and beyond the authoritative, inerrant, perfect, and inspired word of God (cf. 2 Tim. 3:16-17; Jas. 1:25). Friends, mark this well, whenever people emphasize and depend on “personal testimonies” and “inner leadings of the Spirit,” it will not be 30 days before they will not give the flutter of an eyelid or the snap of a finger for what the Bible says! This is why seventy-five per cent of a “true” Pentecostals repudiate plain Bible teaching without a troubled conscience!

Pentecostalism tends to involve the Holy Spirit in ridiculous contradictions (i.e. if Pentecostalism claims are true, which of course, they are not!). They claim to have been baptized in the Holy Spirit, one of the purposes of which was to guide the apostles “into all the truth” (Jn. 16:13; t4:25-26). Question: If Pentecostals actually possess the baptism in the Spirit, why do they teach and practice doctrines which the Holy Spirit through the apostles declared to be false and sinful, i.e., without divine authority? Why do they have mechanical accompaniment as music in worship when the Spirit through the apostles commands us to sing in worship (Matt. 26:30; Mk. 14:26; Acts 16:25; Rom. 15:9; 1 Cor. 14:15; Eph. 5:19; Col. 3:16; Jas. 5:13; Heb. 2:12)? If Pentecostals are truly guided by the Holy Spirit, the same Spirit that guided the apostles, why do they not simply sing as the apostles taught the early church? Also, the Holy Spirit through the apostles guided the early church into a threefold work, viz. (1) evangelism (2 Cor. 11:8; Phil. 4:15-17), (2) benevolence (Acts 6:1-6; 1 Cor. 16:1-2; Acts 11:27-30), and edification (Acts 20:32; Eph. 4:11-16). Pentecostals have church-operated kindergartens, church financed picnics, kitchens, and other social arrangements. They have their busses, food, fun, and frolic. This is unscriptural; there is no Bible authority for it! It just seems so strange that the men and women in Pentecostalism who claim to have-been baptized in the Holy Spirit would be teaching and practicing things which the Holy Spirit through the apostles condemns!

Pentecostalism is to be indicted because its preachers are fraudulent in their claims to perform miracles. There is not a Pentecostal preacher on earth who can, by the power of God, perform a bonafide sign, wonder, or miracle! All such claims are deceptive and untrue. The Bible explicitly teaches that miracles have ceased, for their purpose has ended (1 Cor. 13:8-10; Eph. 4:11-16; Jas. 1:25; 2 Pet. 13; Jude 3)! Miracles served the purpose of confirming the word of God (Mk. 16:20; Jn. 20:30-3 1). Once all the word was confirmed, they ceased! Some of the less skillful Pentecostals will sometimes say, “I do not know how to answer the arguments of those who say miracles have ceased, but I will continue to testify regarding what the Lord is doing for me.” This involves contradiction; if they have actually received the “baptism in the Holy Spirit,” they would know how to answer the arguments of the adversaries! The Bible says so (Mk. 13:9-11).

It seems that Pentecostal preachers (along with other denominational preachers) are getting too wise (?) to have their doctrines examined under public scrutiny with the word of God! The reason: “The light is come into the world, and men loved the darkness rather than the light; for their works were evil. For every one that doeth evil hateth the light, lest his works should be reproved” (Jn. 3:19-20).

Guardian of Truth XXX: 7, p. 213
April 3, 1986

The Message of the Cross

By Robert F. Turner

Paul said, “it pleased God by the foolishness of preaching to save them that believe” (1 Cor. 1:21). Of course it was the message, the “word of the cross” (v. 18), which the world considered foolish. Surely no reader seriously believes “the cross” refers to a piece of jewelry or talisman; and I hope we are mature enough to recognize the necessity for faith, repentance, and baptism, without thinking this constitutes the “message of the cross.” Nor is “our cross” some arthritic shoulder, inconsiderate boss, or family problem. Jesus said we must “bear our cross” to be His disciple (Lk. 14:27), and that relates the cross to our learning and following the Lord. We must strive to understand the message of the cross.

The obvious basis for this message is the literal cross, and more particularly the meaning of the cross in the redemption of man. Man was created a free agent, but used his freedom to sin against God. We can not appreciate the message of the cross until we realize something of the awfulness of sin and its affront to our Maker. God, in keeping with His nature, made the decree: “the soul that sinneth, shall die.” But early in man’s history, God’s merciful nature was also manifested. Animals were ordered sacrificed as a type substitution – the life of the animal for the life of the sinner. Then, Isaiah said, “He was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities; the chastisement of our peace was upon in; and with his stripes we are healed” (53:5f). Philip and other inspired writers apply this to Jesus Christ, the God-given means of man’s redemption. The literal message of the cross is that Christ died in our stead, making salvation a gift of God, freely given to “whosoever” will put his trust in Him.

But the message of the cross goes much further than a literal “blood” payment. He who truly forgives must bear the cost of the wrong, must “take the loss” instead of his “pound of flesh.” This remedy for sin was freely given, at tremendous cost, for totally undeserving mankind. The sinless Son of God prayed, “If it be possible, let this cup pass from me: nevertheless, not as I will, but as thou wilt” (Matt. 26:39). He could have called for angelic protection (v. 53), but chose instead to carry out the plan of divine grace. The Hebrew writer says, “yet learned he obedience by the things which he suffered” (5:8). This was learning in the sense of ultimate experience – the divine need over fleshly desires. Clearly, self sacrifice is emphasized as the heart of the message of the cross. “God so loved . . . that he gave” (Jn. 3:16). “He loved us, and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins” (1 Jn. 4: 10). John said, “Beloved, if God so loved us, we ought also to love one another” (v. 11). Sacrificing love in the message of the cross is an essential for all who would bear their cross (cf. 1 Cor. 13).

The message of the cross is more; it is non-material in its nature. Christ “led captivity captive, and gave gifts unto men” (Eph. 4:8). But they were not the material gifts men expected. The Jews looked for Messiah, a Davidic king with a wealthy, powerful, material kingdom. Instead, they were offered a suffering Messiah who had no place to lay His head. To make matters worse, from their viewpoint, He asked them to make like sacrifices (Lk. 9:58). Paul coupled “the sure mercies of David” with the crucified and resurrected Jesus, and said the blessings were “the forgiveness of sins” (Acts 13:23,34t). That was no more welcomed by worldly minded people then, than it is today. Jesus Christ was a “stumbling block” to the Jews (Rom. 9:32; 1 Cor. 1:23). The message of the cross challenges us today: go the second mile, love your enemies, give all (Matt. 5:38-48). Yea, “how hardly shall they that have riches (that “trust in riches”) enter into the kingdom of God” (Mk. 10:23-24).

The message of the cross was offensive then, and is now, because it runs counter to man’s ways of winning. How could the meek inherit the earth? When Jesus first told His disciples He was going to suffer and die, Peter rebuked Him saying, “Be it far from thee, Lord: this shall never be unto thee” (Matt. 16:22). But Jesus replied, “Thou mindest not the things of God, but the things of men” (v. 23). It was then He continued: “If any man would come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me” (v 24). Jesus triumphed through suffering (Heb. 2:10); and taught that greatness is achieved in humble service (Matt. 20:26f). Our weapons are not carnal (2 Cor. 10:4f), and the spirit of “burn ’em up” is rebuked (Lk. 9:54f). We can not “glory in the cross” while we glory in the flesh (Gal. 6:12-14). Those who rejected the cross persecuted those who tried to live by its message (Gal. 5:11).

The message of the cross does not depend upon man’s wisdom; and that irritates those who flaunt their degrees. But the gospel does not discourage learning; it only insists that God’s wisdom is greater. “God hath chosen the foolish things of the world to confound the wise; and . . . the weak things of the world to confound the things which are mighty” (1 Cor. 1:27). The message of the cross rejects worldly wisdom – when it becomes our God (Col. 2:3f). The things of the Spirit are received by humble men, whose faith stands in the power of God rather than in human wisdom (1 Cor. 2:1-5, 14). In the final analysis, salvation is by faith in the cross, not by faith in ourselves. How desperately we need to learn this basic principle of the message of the cross.

Paul gloried in the cross of Christ, “by whom the world is crucified unto me, and I unto the world” (Gal. 6:1-14). The power of the world over Paul, and his carnal love for the world, were done away in his acceptance of the message of the cross. Paul realized the awfulness of his sins, and welcomed the mercy of the cross. He was ready for its message of forgiveness, for he was made to see himself clearly – as “chief of sinners.” But he also welcomed the opportunity to sacrifice himself for Christ’s sake. He accepted stripes and imprisonment for the cause of Christ, and bore on his body the marks of Jesus (Gal. 6:17). He was determined to preach the gospel, regardless of support (1 Cor. 9:15-16); and tender love shown even as he upbraided erring brethren (Gal. 4:19-20). He was “crucified with Christ” and Christ lived in him (2:20). Paul had learned well the “message of the cross.”

But do not expect the world to flock to the cross. “The god of this world has blinded the minds of them which believe not” (2 Cor. 4:4), and they will not see beyond its empty glitter. The confinements of the cross are too much for them, the cost too great. The challenge of preaching is to seek and find the few who recognize the transient nature of this world, the value of the soul; and who will understand and be thankful for the message of the cross. These will find peace with God and self, become new creatures, and live with God here, and hereafter.

Guardian of Truth XXX: 7, pp. 199, 215
April 3, 1986