Truth Magazine

By David M. Bonner

When I was living in a dormitory during my college years, several of my neighbors learned an important lesson about their vocabularies. These young men had been living away from the moral guidance of their parents and had acquired the use of a number of “four letter” words. The use of these words had become so habitual, several individuals became totally unaware they were using expletives. When the university had a “parents weekend” they invited their parents to see the dorm. When these young men unknowingly greeted their parents with some of the most vulgar profanity, their mothers were in a state of shock.

God has never wanted his people to use his name in a vain, empty, or idle way (Exod. 20:7; Matt.12:34-37). The Scriptures admonish us to, “Let your speech be al-ways with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer each one” (Col.4:6). In 2 Timothy 1:13, Timothy was told to “hold the pattern of sound words.” In Matthew 26:73-74 when Peter was told, “for thy speech maketh thee known,” he changed his speech and began “to curse and to swear” in order to convince them he was not a disciple of Christ. That kind of language is still an indicator of one’s spiritual weakness.

The third chapter of James gives a beautiful lesson on using our tongues properly. “For in many things we all stumble. If any stumbleth not in word, the same is a perfect man, able to bridle the whole body also” (James 3:2). And in verses 8-11 it says, “But the tongue can no man tame; it is a restless evil, it is full of deadly poison. There-with bless we the Lord and Father; and therewith curse we men, who are made after the likeness of God: out of the same mouth cometh forth blessing and cursing. My brethren, these things ought not so to be. Doth the fountain send forth from the same opening sweet water and bitter?” These passages admonish us to be judicious in our speech and warn us that our speech is not only an indicator of our spirituality, but also a measure by which others can judge our spirituality.

Fellow Christians, what does your speech say about you? Does it indicate your mind dwells on spiritual things and that your tongue is trained to speak spiritually, or does it indicate worldliness?

I have seldom seen Christians using profanity to the magnitude that my college dorm mates were engaging in, but I have noticed Christians using euphemisms or slang words. Euphemisms are the substitution of an “agreeable” or “inoffensive” word or expression for one that is harsh, indelicate, or otherwise offensive. In other words, these words have the same meaning, but are less offensive to the listener. For an example, when one dies we usually soften our conversation with the bereaved by referring to the de-ceased as having “passed away.” The meaning is the same, but the message is more acceptable. When one uses euphemisms for curse words or other expletives it should be realized that profanity is still being used, it is just “more socially acceptable profanity.”

Some examples of Euphemisms include:

1. Darn or Durn  (euphemism) Damn

2. Dang  (euphemism) Damn

3. Doggone  (euphemism) God damn

4. Gosh, Gash, Garsh  (euphemism) God

5. Gee, Jee  (euphemism) Jesus

6. Golly  (euphemism) God

7. Heck  (euphemism) Hell

The definitions to these words can be found in Webster’s dictionary. The above list is not comprehensive. These words and many other slang words should be eliminated from every Christian’s vocabulary so we do not practice “socially acceptable” vulgarity.

I know that many have used these words in ignorance. Twenty years ago I gave a lesson on this topic. Afterwards, two of the young ladies in the congregation approached me and said, “brother Bonner that was a good lesson, but do you know you too use an euphemism? You use the word `shoot.’ At the time I could not understand how shoot, as in shooting a rifle, could be an euphemism of vulgarity. That evening when I looked it up in the dictionary it said shoot was an euphemism for “sh _ .” You can imagine my embarrassment. I quit using the word immediately, but I still wondered if really any one ever used the word that way or even knew that it was an euphemism for a very vulgar word. Only two days later I heard a woman at school say “oh sh _ .” When I asked her not to talk that way she said, “OK, oh shoot.” Since then I have seen this euphemism used this way numerous times. My point is that it is possible for us to be naive about the words of the world. Once we have learned better we need to speak better.

There are two approaches we can take on this subject. One is to become defensive and refuse to listen. For an ex-ample, I was once told “darn” just means to darn your socks. The other choice we can make is to be open minded enough to realize that, even though words may have double usages or multiple meanings, when people say “oh darn” they are not darning their socks and when they say “oh gee” they are not prodding a team of mules. They are using these words in exclamation. These expletive euphemisms are just “watered down” words which really mean something more harsh.

Matthew 12:36 says we are going to give account for every “idle word” we speak. Doesn’t this plainly say Christians have no business using expletives, euphemisms, vulgarity, or any other form of “meaningless filler words” that do not add to the sense of our conversation? Certainly it does!

When one realizes he should not use these words, what should be done? My college dorm mates were determined to never embarrass themselves again. They initiated a pro-gram to help educate each other by charging fines to anyone in their group that slipped and used any word that is taboo. They quickly cleaned up their language. A local congregation should act as a family, as a group of friends. I am not advocating monetary fines, but if you have brethren who are uninformed about these words, why not make a copy of this article and discuss it with them? I have seen several groups of Christians agree to have other brethren kindly bring to their attention any slip in the use of these words. Long time habits are hard to break, but with the help of friends, it can be done much more quickly and easily. This is what Christianity is all about, helping each other live better spiritually.

Guardian of Truth XL: No. 17, p. 8-9
September 5, 1996

By Donald P. Ames

So many times we focus on one or two people in an account, and fail to see other equally plain lessons. We have noted the man of God and the old prophet, but there is another tragic figure also in this chapter.

Jeroboam

Jeroboam had been selected by God and promised the northern ten tribes of Israel (1 Kings 11). God even promised, “If you heed all I command you . . . I will be with you and build for you an enduring house, as I built for David” (11:38). God kept his promise, but Jeroboam distrusted God, and set about trying to secure his own throne by methods unacceptable to God (1 Kings 12). Now, God is forced to prophesy against his own anointed!

How far had Jeroboam gone? Note in 13:6, he begs the man of God to entreat “the Lord your God”! He no longer claimed any fellowship with God. Why did he not then turn to the “gods” he had set before the nation of Israel (12:28)? He knew they could not help! Certainly this is seen by the way he tried to use his wife to deceive Ahijah (1 Kings 14). It is sad that many are caught up in sin despite all that God has given them. There may be many reasons they got into it. Frequently, rather than turn back away from it, they seek to deny God, as though that would make them OK. But though we may seek to deny there is a God and the fact that someday we will have to stand before him, our denial will not alter any of the facts (Acts 17:30-31; 2 Thess. 1:8). And deep down inside, most of us know such to be so  regardless of how confident we may seem in our denials.

Now, angered at the man of God for daring to rebuke his sinful ways, he seeks to strike out and seize him. He should have heeded the warning (Amos 3:7)! There was still time! The kingdom could still be his! But too many react rather than repent, retaliate rather than regret, and rebel rather than obey! They resort to name calling and character assignation rather than to answer the statements from the word of God. Yes, he was only digging his own grave that much deeper. The man of God exercised great control in dealing with him (cf. Gal. 6:1; 2 Tim. 2:24-26).

For his arrogance, God withered Jeroboam’s hand, and caused the altar to be split just as the man of God had said would happen. Note now his plea: “Please entreat the fa-vor of the Lord your God, and pray for me, that my hand may be restored to me” (13:6). He knew the effect of a righteous man’s prayer (James 5:16). He also knew that when one “turns away his ear from hearing the law, even his prayer is an abomination” (Prov. 28:9). What right did he have to ask anything of God, considering the way he had repaid him for making him king over the northern ten tribes? Like so many today, he was guilty of taking, but offering nothing back to God in return! But God is not man! God bestows blessings even on the wicked sometimes to try to bring them to repentance (Matt. 5:45; Rom. 2:4). He even loved us while we were still his enemies (Rom. 5:8-10). And Jesus, on the cross, cried out, “Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do” (Luke 23:34). That love moved us to repent and obey him. And John challenges each of us to try to learn that same kind of love for one another (1 John 4:7-11).

And so, in spite of all that Jeroboam had done in rebel-lion against him, God healed his hand in response to the man of God’s prayers. How happy Jeroboam was! He wanted to reward the man of God, to invite him into his home, to give him a meal to eat, to give him an opportunity to refresh himself before he headed back to Judah (and completely ignored the sin that had caused all the before mentioned events). But, oops! Wasn’t that God who had healed him? Aren’t we willing to show our appreciation to men  and often forget God is the source of all our blessings (James 1:17)? Perhaps because we feel more obligated if we acknowledge Jehovah as the source rather than man, we tend to dismiss God from our thinking and reward men. Again, his thanksgiving was too shallow.

Even after having heard the message from the man of God, seeing the altar split in two as confirmation God had spoken it, having had his hand withered up and then re-stored again by the power of God; Jeroboam hardened his heart again. It is a sad thing to note that some men will not repent, regardless of what God does to bring them to repentance. “It is impossible . . . to renew them again to repentance” (Heb. 6:4-6). This doesn’t mean we should not try, but it is a fact of life that everyone is not going to render obedience to the gospel of Christ It is not our role to force such obedience. Ours is to do the preaching  whether they “hear or whether they refuse” (Ezek. 2:5). The final choice of action is up to them, and the consequences for such. The man of God was not a failure because Jeroboam did not repent, but rather because he himself had failed to do what God instructed. If we have faithfully done our part, God will reward us accordingly, even if those we convert turn out to be wood, hay, and straw rather than gold and silver (1 Cor. 3:9-15).

God will bear with men, and try to bring them to repentance (2 Pet. 3:9), but not forever (Isa. 59:1-2). Jeroboam was offered a warning, a sign, and a blessing; but turned his back on God and continued his wicked way. He “again made priests from every class of people for the high places; whoever wished, he consecrated him, and he became one of the priests of the high places” (13:33). As a result, “thisthing was the sin of the house of Jeroboam, so as to exterminate and destroy it from the face of the earth” (13:34). Not only did Jeroboam pay for his sins, but it also affected his offspring as well (1 Kings 14:10-11). In trying to secure it all for himself, he lost it all, and his family as well. God begs, “As I live . . . I have no pleasure in the death of the wicked, but that the wicked turn from his way and live. Turn, turn from your evil ways! For why should you die, 0 house of Israel?” (Ezek. 33:11). But God is also just, and will keep his word! You can not by-pass God and come out on top! Let us learn the valuable lesson Jeroboam passed up!

 Guardian of Truth XL: No. 17, p. 12-13
September 5, 1996

By Barney Keith

The edification of the saints is one of the objectives of our assemblies. We are made to wonder at times just how much of this is accomplished. The church at Corinth was instructed to conduct assemblies in such a manner “that the church may receive edifying” (1 Cor.14:5). Paul admonished, “Let all things be done unto edifying” (v. 26). His concern was that certain disorder in their meetings would prevent edification.

While Paul was dealing in 1 Corinthians 14 with a kind of assembly that cannot be duplicated today (one where spiritual gifts were being exercised), this chap-ter does set forth some lessons that clearly are applicable today in making our own assemblies more profitable. True edification can occur only when conditions are conducive to such. We shall consider some of them briefly.

True Edification

Requires Teaching

Without teaching or instruction there will be no edification. Paul declared that the brother who prophesies “edifieth the church” (v. 4). God’s will was being revealed and it was necessary that it be taught. It is no less necessary that it be taught today. Initial faith comes from this (Rom.10:17). Maturity of growth comes from increased acquaintance with the word of God (Heb. 5:12-14; 1 Pet. 2:2). A congregation that receives very little teaching that calls attention to Scripture will not be edified, but will become vulnerable to the ravages of false doctrine and apostasy. Interesting, but pointless, tales about one’s personal life, big doses of psychology, heavy expo-sure to popular denominational authors, and even  enthusiastic “feel-goodism” will never edify Christians in the right way. Elders in every congregation should insist upon good solid Bible teaching from the pulpit and in the classrooms. There will never be a substitute for this.

True Edification

Requires Understanding

As a corollary to the above, edification can occur only when peopleunderstand what is said. How can one be built up if he does not comprehend the message of the speaker or teacher? A problem at Corinth was created when some used languages (“tongues”) that were unintelligible to the audience. Paul likened it to “speaking into the air” (v. 9) when there was no understanding. Evidently prophesying was in the vernacular and would require no translator. The brethren would be edified by this, for they could understand. Their praying also needed to be in an understandable language. Otherwise people could not say, “Amen” when the prayer was finished (v. 16). No person is edified by what he does not comprehend.

It is just as necessary in our day for preaching to be intelligible. Special effort should be made toward clarity of speech, God’s message of truth should not be obscured by befuddling, confusing verbiage. Flights of oratory with vocabulary unfamiliar to the average person may greatly amaze, but will hardly instruct the common man. The best teaching is done by simplicity of speech. Our Lord expressed the grandest of truths in the simplest of ways. The great apostle Paul took care that his preaching be done “not with excellency of speech” (1 Cor.2:1) and not “in persuasive words of wisdom” (2:4).

Despite the best efforts one may make, on occasions someone may leave an assembly saying, “I don’t agree with what he said.” One should not, however, have to say upon leaving, “I couldn’t understand what he was talking about.” Let us make the teaching plain. If the hearer claims not to understand, let us strive to be sure that his failure is due to his own attitude of heart and not to our failure to speak plainly.

Edification Requires Decent, Orderly Procedure

Edification is expedited by orderly procedure in the services. This is easily seen in verses 26-40. Whatever causes confusion or distraction unnecessarily militates against the profit that should be received from teaching. Paul shows in verses 29-30 that the commotion created by several prophets trying to speak at one time was destructive of edification. Mentioned also in this context is the disruptive speaking out by certain women, a clear violation of the divine order (35, 36). “God is not the author of confusion, but of peace,” Paul declares in verse 33. His instruction is, “Let all things be done decently and in order” (14:40).

One cannot help wondering just how much edification occurs in an assembly where attention is distracted by things which generally ought not to go on during worship. What justification can be found for a steady stream of children to the restrooms  something that could be avoided by parents seeing to that at a more appropriate time. (A few people have certain physical problems over which they have no control. These comments intend no criticism of such cases.) Distraction sometimes may be due to boisterous, unruly children who are allowed to continue without proper correction.

And what about the noisy rattling of paper bags to get snacks out for the kids? Or even the unpleasant sounds across the way from clipping nails? Or perhaps the constant whispering (?) to those nearby? Problems of this sort may vary from place to place. Let us never forget that hearts are to be focused upon worshiping God “in spirit and in truth.” Effort should be made, as much as is possible, to create and maintain an atmosphere that makes that kind of worship possible (John 4:24).

And Another Thing

While not under consideration in the Corinthian text, it surely is in order to say something else that is obvious to all. True edification cannot occur when a schismatic, belligerent atmosphere pervades a congregation. An assembly for worship should never be in shambles from a shouting match or shameful outburst of anger. “God is not the author of confusion, but of peace.” Shame on those who allow passion and pride to prevent worshipful devotion to him in whose august and holy presence they have met.

True edification arises from “the wisdom that is from above,” which, according to James 3:17, is “first pure, then peaceable, gentle, reasonable, full of mercy and good fruits …” The opposite behavior, he says, is “earthly, sensual, devilish” (v. 16). Edification cannot flourish in such soil.

Edification Is Possible

Edification of the church is possible! God does not re-quire that which we cannot do. True edification will take place (1) with the teaching of God’s word, (2) understand-ably presented, and (3) in an assembly conducted decently and in order with the proper spirit of brotherly love. Let us be concerned always with “things wherewith one may edify another” (Rom.14:19). We need all the edification we can get to help us make it to heaven!

Guardian of Truth XL: No. 17, p. 1
September 5, 1996

By Dan King

The natural longing which exists within each one of us to “better our situation” and improve upon our lifestyle, grows out of a deeper instinct within the human soul. Our parents wanted us to “have it better” than they did, and we want out children to “do better” than we have. One gets the impression that we human beings are either impossible to please, or else there is an instinct that resides within us which points us to-ward another and incomparably better future than anything we are ever able to enjoy here in this world. I am convinced that the latter is the case. Like the patriarchs of the book of Genesis, “We have not here an abiding city, but we seek after the city which is to come” (Heb. 13:14). So, no matter how good we have it now, we are never satisfied, nor shall we ever be, this side of heaven.

Peter speaks of the consummation of this present world, with its very elements dissolved, yet concludes upon a clear note of hope:

But the day of the Lord will come as a thief; in the which the heavens shall pass away with a great noise, and the elements shall be dissolved with fervent heat, and the earth and the works that are therein shall be burned up. Seeing that these things are thus all to be dissolved, what manner of persons ought ye to be in all holy living and godliness, looking for and earnestly desiring the coming of the day of God, by reason of which the heavens being on fire shall be dissolved, and the elements shall melt with fervent heat? But, according to his promise, we look for new heavens and a new earth, wherein dwelleth righteousness (2 Pet. 3:10-13).

The prospect of being stripped of what we have by the “death knell” of this present universe should give us no joy. After all, there are some very good and pleasant aspects of our beautiful planet which we would hesitate to sacrifice to fiery destruction. Yet, if we could be assured, with absolute certainty, that this is merely a trade-off, and we will come out the better for it, then we could “look for and earnestly desire the coming of the day of God.” That is the idea. It is not what we lose that is important. It is what we gain in the transaction. This is what really counts.

Peter points out four things we ought to appreciate in order to keep this terrible and wonderful future time in proper perspective:

These things are all to be dissolved. All earthly things, material possessions, earthly power and prestige, worldly accomplishments and ambitions, will be no more. As Christ said, “For what shall it profit a man, if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?” (Mark 8:36). Some things really matter, while others actually do not. We must keep our perspective: “If then ye were raised together with Christ, seek the things that are above, where Christ is, seated on the right hand of God. Set your mind on the things that are above, not on the things that are upon the earth (Col. 3:1-2).

What manner of persons ought we to be? Realizing that this world and its possessions and attainments have no long-term future, no permanency, places the emphasis where it belongs: upon developing Christian character: “holy living and godliness.” What will abide is what we send on ahead of us into eternity (Matt. 6:19-20), and the qualities we allow God to develop in us, while here, which make us fit citizens of the heavenly kingdom: “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, meekness, self-control; against such there is no law. And they that are of Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with the passions and the lusts thereof’ (Gal. 5:22-24).

We ought to look for and earnestly desire the coming of the day of God. As the writer of the Hebrew epistle said: “They that say such things make it manifest that they are seeking after a country of their own . . . they desire a better country” for they are truly “strangers and pilgrims on the earth” (Heb. 11:13-16). As the old hymn says, “This world is not my home, I’m just a-passing through; my treasures are laid up somewhere beyond the blue.” We must have the outlook of John who, when robbed of all earthly moorings and sent to the prison-isle of Patmos wrote, “He who testifieth these things saith, `Yea: I come quickly.’ Amen: come, Lord Jesus” (Rev. 22:20).

According to his promise, we look for new heavens and a new earth. The Christian keeps his anchor tied securely to the promises of God. No earthly loss, discouragement or frustration can break the chain. We see beyond this world, its treasures and achievements. There is ahead a destination where we truly can say, “The first things are passed away,” and where God will say, “Behold, I make all things new” (Rev. 21:4, 5). When we consider the terrible evils we will put behind us, “we who are spiritual” can appreciate with great anticipation “new heavens and a new earth wherein dwelleth righteousness.” How can we? Because God promised! As a popular expression has simply but majestically articulated it: “God said it. I believe it. That settles it.”

Guardian of Truth XL: 7 p. 5
April 4, 1996