Response To Don Patton

By Tom M. Roberts

In seeking “things that make for peace” (Rom. 14:19), we must not compromise with error and bring false peace by accepting sin into the church as brother Patton would do. Brother Patton’s plan for peace is nothing less than capitulation on the fellowship issue.

Do not be misled. Whatever else maybe said about our disagreement, brother Patton admits to including sinful practices within the principles of Romans 14, allowing fellowship with those who participate in them. This is unity-in-diversity in its rawest form and it will not be allowed to pass unchallenged. It is not bizarre or inordinate to examine any position that urges brethren to accept sin into their practice. It is not vile to raise a trumpet of warning about those who cry “Peace, Peace, when there is no peace” (Jer. 8:11).

The Infamous Chart of 100 Things

The issue would remain the same if Don had never invented his chart. His principle of including sinful doctrines and practices within Romans 14 and receiving them into our fellowship defines our differences. But let it be remembered that Don used his chart five times in his sermon on Romans 14 as it illustrated the “divine wisdom” this chapter provides to solve fellowship problems with sinful practices. His chart agrees in principle with his stated exegesis. It is not whether any of these 100 issues always belong in Romans 14, but whether some may ever belong there at all.

How Do We Limit Matters Allowed in Romans 14?

Though the text and context of Romans 14 clearly refer to matters indifferent to God, brother Patton includes sinful doctrines and practices in the chapter. He erected three rules to limit concerns which immediately arise. These rules were: (1) it must refer to brethren (not aliens), (2) it must be an individual (not congregational) matter, and (3) each must be conscientious and sincere. When challenged that these would permit adultery and other evils into fellowship, he added two more rules: (4) moral issues are excluded and (5) promotion of the error is not allowed.

While agreeing that Romans 14 addresses matters between brethren and not aliens (rule 1), the other four laid down are arbitrary and unenforceable. All five rules assume the sinfulness of the practice of eating meats and observing days, Don’s first of many fallacies.

Rule 2  Individual Action: Eating meats was done by a plurality at one time, thus it was not individual action. Invitations were sent to others (1 Cor. 10:27). Are we to believe that eating meats did not also involve the wife and children, thus restricting it (like adultery) from being a purely individual action? Observing days was likewise public (Acts 21:23-26). Limiting Romans 14 to individual action is another fallacy.

Rule 3  Conscientious and Sincere: Determining that another is honest and sincere requires that we read hearts rather than actions, which is impossible (1 Cor. 2:11). Local churches unknowingly fellowship insincere people (Phil. 1:15-18); only God can distinguish motives.

Rule 4  Moral Issues: Nothing in the text or context would rule out immoral practices if sinful practices are included in Romans 14. Immoral practices are sinful practices (1 In. 3:4)! But brother Patton supports his fourth rule by misusing Romans 2:14-15 to say Gentiles had the law of God “written on their hearts” as an “innate” law. This implies knowing God’s law in some manner other than the written word and violates Hebrews 8:10 and 10:16 which show the revealed gospel is written on our hearts only as we obey it (Rom. 6:17; 7:25; 10:8; et al). Romans 2:14-15 simply teaches that Gentiles were obeying by long established practice what the Jews, who had the written law, disobeyed. An “innate law” contradicts Romans 7:7 which affirms: “Nay, I had not known sin, but by the law: for I had not known lust, except the law had said, Thou shalt not covet.” But the law against coveting specifically forbade coveting your neighbor’s wife, a moral issue (Exod. 20:17). Therefore, this immoral practice is known only by revealed truth, not innate or inherent knowledge.

Don equivocates on whether or not there are things written on our heart by something other than the written word. He says, on one hand, that “the Word is the absolute standard by which every thought must be measured.” Then, as though words have no meaning, he argues that it does not supplant the Word to “view that we have embedded within us the confirming awareness that some things are wrong.” Now, brother Patton, which is it? Is the Word an absolute measure? If so, what is embedded in us to confirm our awareness? This is dangerous ground and one that readers will do well to consider carefully.

If an innate, inherent knowledge somehow “embedded” in our hearts reveals that immoral practices cannot be honest and immoral at the same time, why is this limited to immoral and not doctrinal sins? Romans 1 also condemns idolatry, all unrighteousness, covenant breakers, etc.? How can people practice doctrinal sins and be honest?

We need to know, brother Patton, just what this “moral law” is that is written in the heart. You quote your father as proof that “matters of positive law stand apart from those of moral law” (Answers For Our Hope 226-227). Would you please quote an inspired man? Brother Halley speaks of a “moral law” that permits the alien to marry and divorce at will, without defining that law. Now, you and your father quote the same thing but give no proof. Is Patton’s “moral law” the same as Hailey’s “moral law”? I have never seen any statement of Scripture that permits any law but the law of Christ this side of the cross (Rom. 8:1-4). Give us an accurate definition of “moral law” and where it is found in the Scripture, please.

Without an innate law, brother Patton is left without a legitimate reason for excluding immoral issues from Romans 14 or for refusing fellowship with them. Given his position that Romans 14 is not limited to matters of indifference to God but includes sinful practices which we may fellowship, both moral and doctrinal issues must be allowed. If not, brother Patton must produce some divine, positive law that would allow fellowship with a doctrinal sin but would “stand apart from” and disallow fellowship with a moral sin. The Bible makes no such distinction (1 John 3:4). Without such proof, Don must be ready to allow immoral practices (divorce and remarriage, polygamy, homosexuality, etc.) into the fellowship of doctrinal sins that he demands from Romans 14.

Shall we “Gerrymander” Adultery Into Our Fellowship?

“Gerrymandering” is the political practice of drawing lines through precincts that are favorable to certain politicians. In his speech before preachers in Grand Prairie on Nov. 10, 1994, Don deplored “gerrymandering” among brethren as “inconsistent,” “inexcusable,” and “pervasive” whereby some allow fellowship on some issues but not on others. He specifically named some issues where fellow-ship is usually extended: carnal warfare, the covering question, etc., including four specific marriage positions that do not usually divide brethren. These were: “No Divorced Remarry; May Divorce, Not Remarry; May Separate, Not Remarry; and No Reason For Divorce.” However, he noted that there were also four positions where fellowship is not allowed: “Fornicator May Re-marry; Baptism Starts Fresh; Unbeliever Not Subject; and Adultery Severs.” Since his argument was that it is “inconsistent,” and “inexcusable” to “gerrymander out” certain issues, the necessary inference is that Don wants us to “gerrymander in” those who teach “Fornicators may Re-marry; Baptism Starts Fresh; Unbeliever Not Subject; and Adultery Severs.” Beyond doubt, he is not looking to narrow the bounds of fellowship by his “gerrymander” argument. Therefore, the force of his argument is to extend fellowship to those who teach and practice error on divorce and remarriage. The evidence is cumulative and inescapable.

In the light of his own words, Rule four is meaningless.

Rule 5  Promotion of Error: How does one distinguish between stating one’s personal convictions (which brother Patton says is permissible) and promoting a false doctrine (which he claims to forbid)? Can one state his personal conviction in a class? From the pulpit? Among brethren in a home? Once? Twice? Ten times? At what point does “stating one’s personal conviction” become “promoting” a false doctrine? Could one “state his convictions” in a class of preachers such as Don has done and not be guilty of “promoting” a false doctrine?

But those who “hold personal convictions,” understand-ably, do not keep quiet. Shall we pretend: “Don’t ask, don’t tell”? When asked, those who hold “personal convictions” do tell. Homer Dailey has done so repeatedly. Paul stated it as axiomatic: “I believed, and therefore have I spoken; we also believe, and therefore speak” (2 Cor. 4:13).

If one holds a personal conviction that is sinful, he will not keep quiet when a gospel preacher teaches a class or preaches a sermon that exposes him. Those who believe sinful doctrines or morals to be correct will feel compelled either to defend their positions or to put pressure on preachers to keep quiet. The effect is to stifle the free course of gospel preaching or to become public with their convictions.

What happens when one is converted by a false teacher who is only “stating his convictions”? Is the convert any less lost? Jesus warned of that exact event when he said: “If the blind lead the blind, both shall fall into the ditch” (Matt. 15:14).

Brethren, when a single sinful doctrine or practice of any kind is included within Roman.; !I, there are no rules that exclude any others. How can you include one sin and exclude any others? It is all or not at all! The battle is joined on this issue.

Individual or Congregational?

What Does Don Practice?

Brother Patton argues extensively that individual sins are permitted but congregational sin is prohibited. It is fully understood that we cannot police another’s thoughts or beliefs that are privately held. But brother Patton’s five rules do not address the real issue and do not prohibit individual issues from becoming congregational. They allow for one to hold a sinful doctrine, practice it either individually or publicly (influencing others), and remain in an open-ended fellowship with the congregation so long as he did not become factious! They would allow the doctrinal views of: premillennialism, Masonry, Realized Eschatology, institutionalism, no-Bible-classes, instrumental music, evolution, divorce and remarriage without cause, Calvinism, etc.

Remember that Don has said that sinful doctrines and practices belong in Romans 14. He has stated that Romans 14 has no time-limits. He maintains that so long as a brother is conscientious and honest, though he is in a sinful practice even when known by others, he cannot be refused fellowship. But the Bible teaches that “a little leaven leaveneth the whole lump” (1 Cor. 5:6). It is impossible that a congregation remain unaffected indefinitely by sinful doctrines and practices, even on an individual basis.

However, Don does not practice his own rules! He says “do as I say, not as I do.”

He argued in our public discussions in Grand Prairie, Texas, that we can receive into fellowship an ex-Catholic Christian who clings to idol worship at home (statues of Mary). His rules provide no basis for discipline if the practice continues after teaching forbearingly and the idolatry becomes known to all. There is no time-limit in Romans 14! But it gets worse!

Don’s practice is that he has already received into his fellowship one who believes and advocates that the guilty, put-way fornicator can remarry! Even more telling, this member whom Don receives in fellowship at Easton Road in Dallas, Texas is also an elder under whom Don serves. This does not involve a babe in Christ, a time limit (requiring discipline), or limits in the scope of fellowship (refusing to allow him to teach class, etc.). This is an elder from whom Don accepts oversight and who advocates the practice (not just a personal conviction) that a guilty fornicator can remarry and still be right with God. Thus, this practice is congregational, not individual in scope; open-ended fellowship with error!

Has Don brought this practice to a “screeching halt”? Has the elder “been removed from the class”? Has the elder been “personally rebuked”? Has “strong teaching” against the guilty, put-away fornicator “continued from the pulpit”? Has the elder in question “powerfully, effectively taught against” the guilty, put-away fornicator being free to remarry? Has the elder ever raised the question of “Is it adultery?” or “Is it lasciviousness?” whereby he can demand protracted fellowship in this sin while he continues to “study the issue”? Is it merely a matter of forbearance? Paul said he withstood Peter to the face because he stood condemned (Gal. 2:11). Has brother Patton ever withstood this elder to the face “before them all” because he stands condemned? Or does he continue to fellowship him in a sinful doctrine not privately held but publicly advocated?

Additionally, Don disputed with John West, preacher at the Westlake church in Mesquite, Texas, that a fallen brother whom John had advised not to remarry (as a guilty, put-away fornicator) could, indeed, remarry. In the course of that discussion, brother Patton declared that he could not prove from the New Testament that polygamy was sinful! In further discussions, brother Patton also said that he could not prove from the New Testament that it was sinful for the put-away fornicator to remarry! Protestations by brother Patton that marriage, divorce and remarriage do not fit into Romans 14 ring rather hollow in the light of his practice.

Leonard Tyler’s Statement

Brother Patton included a statement in his “Response,” from Leonard Tyler who heard the sermon when it was preached at Longview, TX in April, 1990, indicating that brother Tyler and “those who heard the lesson in 1990 understood” (implying agreement). He also quoted brother Tyler as agreeing with him on Nov. 27, 1994 when he called brother Tyler about his recollections. Don’s transcribed statement was:

“Did Don preach what they’re saying about him there at Longview? Brother Tyler said, `Yes, he preached on Romans 14, but he sure didn’t preach anything like what they are accusing him of…I would have heard it, and I didn’t hear anything of it for four years later.’ They didn’t hear it then; I didn’t mean it then. They heard what I meant” (transcription of Dec. 1, 1994 tape at preachers’ forum, Grand Prairie, TX).

Brethren, brother Tyler does not accept Don Patton’s exegesis of Romans 14 as is implied above, though he does not recollect the chart of 100 issues presented by Don. What Don deliberately omitted was an earlier statement by brother Tyler (written Nov. 30, 1994) indicating a specific disagreement with Don’s exegesis of that chapter! The earlier statement reads as follows:

“To Whom It May Concern: S. Leonard Tyler does not remember Don Patton using the chart of 100 items when he preached on Romans 14 at the Judson Road church in Longview, Texas on April 12, 1990 (and I told him that on Sunday, Nov. 27, 1994). Brother Tyler does clearly remember that Don taught Romans 14 includes matters that are inherently sinful and did not agree with that concept. Brother Tyler believes Don’s view eliminates the realm of liberty as set forth in Romans 14. He reiterated those points to Don on Sunday, Nov. 27,1994” (Statement made on Nov. 30, 1994).

This puts Don’s statement from brother Tyler in his “Response” in an entirely differently light. Don knew that brother Tyler disagreed with the sermon when it was preached because they discussed their disagreement. Don knew that brother Tyler had prepared the Nov. 30th statement to be read wherever needed to clarify his disagreement. Acknowledging that he did not remember the chart of 100 issues, brother Tyler nevertheless told Don specifically that he disagreed with him about Romans 14 including “matters inherently sinful” and did not want the statement published unless it accurately represented his disagreement. Don omitted the statement that expressed that area of disagreement.

Brother Tyler is a veteran preacher and can speak for himself without me or anyone else putting words in his mouth. He has specifically authorized me to include his first statement here for clarification and to request that any who doubts his disagreement to call him for personal verification.

I called brother Walton Weaver (now of Paragould, Ark.) who was the local preacher at Judson Road at the time Don preached there on Romans 14. He authorized a statement to be included in this response as follows: “I was present at Judson Road and heard the sermon by Don Patton. I disagreed with it at the time and disagree with it now.”

As a matter of record, the transcript of his sermon clearly establishes what he taught about the chart and Romans 14 without needing to ask his audience what they remember about it four years later.

Does Love Require Us To Accept

Protestations of Innocence?

Don has asked us to accept his protestations of innocence in spite of what he teaches. We cannot judge his heart, but we must judge his words (In. 7:24). The evidence from his own pen demands fellowship with sinful practices as an exegesis of Romans 14. Brethren, love makes no such demand that we ignore what is being taught and practiced (1 In. 2:5; 5:2; Heb. 12:6)! I love Don enough to confront him with his error in the hope that he will repent and turn away from it.

Misunderstanding About Antecedents?

Much was said about the antecedent of “these things” as being individual instead of congregational. But that doesn’t change the problem. Whatever the antecedent, whether individual or congregational, both are erroneous when dealing with sinful doctrines and practices from the stand-point of Romans 14. But the analysis of “Rule 2” above shows his distinction about individual and congregational sins to be without foundation.

Problem I and Problem II

Brother Patton teaches that Problem I refers to Romans 14:1-13 while Problem II refers to Romans 14:13-23. Problem I (he says) includes references to “meats” and “days” that are sinful practices while Problem II refers only to matters “pure” and “good.”

If Problem I refers to sinful practices and Problem II refers to “pure” and “good” practices, how do we deter-mine that? Verses 13-23 also refer to “meat” (vv. 15, 20), “eating and drinking” (v. 17), “flesh and wine” (v. 21) and “eating” (v. 23). What expressed rule makes the eating of verses 1-13 sinful while the same eating of verses 13-23 is “pure” and “good”? The fact of the matter is that all of the “eating” and “days” of verses 1-23 are “pure” and “good” and there is only one problem (not two) with two illustrations (meat and days) to show fellowship in matters of indifference to God.

Whom Does God Receive?

The one whom God receives (vv. 1, 3) is the meat eater and the one observing days. Both are innocent practices that are neither commanded nor forbidden, but permitted (1 Cor. 8:8; Col. 2:16). God “received” (aorist, past tense) the meat eater in the past (v. 3). “To his own Master he stands or falls” (v. 4) in the eating of meats (present tense). “God is able to make him stand” (v. 4) in the future judgment (vv. 10-12) regarding the practice of eating meats. The weak brother wanted to condemn his strong brother in what? Eating meats and observing days! He was not accusing him of any other sin that could make him fall. However, God was the judge, not the weak brother and, since God had received the strong brother in eating meats, the weak brother was commanded to receive him and not condemn him any longer in that practice. But by charging the strong brother who ate meats as sinful, brother Patton is guilty of doing what Paul expressly forbids: judging the servant of God to be sinful in that which God permits.

According to Don, the weak brother is actually the strong brother since the “strong” brother is the one who practices sin and the “weak” brother is one who won’t practice it! This effectively reverses the context. Also, Don would have the weak brother (who does not have all knowledge) to “dispute” with the sinning, stronger brother (who has all knowledge) to convert him from his sinful practice, when Paul said, “don’t dispute” but “receive” (v. 1). If the strong brother sins, has “fallen from grace,” and “needs to be made to stand,” as Don teaches, wherein is his strength? If the strong brother is in danger of losing his soul and the weak brother must “get in his face” and “teach him to maturity,” how does this “make for peace” (v. 17) when it requires confrontation? Brother Patton’s view would reduce the context to nonsense.

Does Limiting Romans 14 to Incidentals

“Gut” the Chapter?

Romans 14 is teaching the necessary lesson of fellow-ship in matters of indifference to God when some, misguided, try to bind judgments (doubtful disputations) on brethren. We are not to do that, but to allow liberty. By establishing liberty in incidental matters that chapter permits differences of opinion without splintering the church.

While forbearance is a part of God’s truth about how we treat brethren in sin (Rom. 2:4), this chapter does not deal specifically with that subject. Forbearance is not the issue nor our real disagreement. Matthew 18:15-17 teaches forbearance that has limits which finally require us to be no longer brethren but to treat the guilty as “Gentiles.” ” But Romans 14 never requires a withdrawal of fellowship because no inherently sinful practice is contemplated.

Conclusion: We Are Not Fighting the Same Battle!

Brother Patton would have you to believe that he is fighting apostasy, has fought it longer and is doing a better job, and that we are waging the same battle. There are major differences!

Brother Patton would bring sinful doctrines and practices into Romans 14, receive them into fellowship, place no time limit on their practice, and condemn to hell any who refuses them. No, we are not fighting the same battle. I am trying to keep sin out of the church; Don advocates receiving it into fellowship. When Don serves under an elder who holds to the error that the put-away fornicator may remarry, it is clear he has surrendered the battle I am fighting. The lines are drawn.

Brother Patton’s arguments have been answered both privately and publicly. Though he has repeatedly charged those who disagree with him as being guilty of misrepresentation, there has been none. A studious intent to avoid a personality dispute has been maintained. In the final analysis, he must accept responsibility for the furor engendered due to the extremes of his position and the danger proposes. I have no animosity toward Don but an in opposition to his doctrine. Others are equally alert to his error and he has on his desk a large number of challenges for debate. If he thinks we are in the same battle, let him sign the propositions. The Woodmont church will endorse such a debate. Will Easton Road? If so, a debate can be quickly arranged. Readers are urged to consider this controversy carefully. I know of no issue of greater magnitude nor of farther reaching consequences than this one. It has the capacity to “:turn the grace of God into lasciviousness” (Jude 4) but it shall not do so quietly and without opposition.

Guardian of Truth XXXIX: 4 p. 23-27
February 16, 1995

Response to Tom Roberts

By Don R. Patton

Brother Roberts is concerned about the threat of apostasy confronting the church. I appreciate him for that. I am well aware and fully agree that the abuse of Romans 14 represents a major area of danger. It is being used as a Trojan home to influence the church to “accept . . . defend and embrace sinful doctrines and practices.” In the early 70’s I attended a “unity meeting” at Scarlet College in Nashville and listened to pleas for unity from David Bobo, Leroy Garrett, and Pat Boone that attempted to use Romans 14 as a “garbage dump” for virtually every evil among us. I think Tom Roberts is absolutely right about the Trojan horse. I unsheathed my sword against that horse over 20 years ago. I am absolutely appalled that he associates me with them.

Yes, I do believe that some of my brethren have misunderstood Romans 14 and consequently are vulnerable. While wisely seeing the danger, I believe they have rushed past Jerusalem to Jericho and find themselves fighting a battle with arguments that will not stand. If our defense against this dangerous Trojan horse is inadequate, we simply become a speed bump on the highway to apostasy. The urgency of the danger demands that we test and prove our weapons and that we train to use them appropriately. It does us no good to turn our swords on those who are trying to help us in that task, even if we believe they are mistaken.

Chart of 100 Issues

I must confess having been bewildered by this inordinate attack on me. It seemed absolutely bizarre. I could not even recall preaching on the subject since 1990. However, after carefully listening to brother Roberts’ presentations and reading his article, I am convinced that the major reason for this problem is his misunderstanding of a list of 100 issues used in a sermon I preached in Longview, Texas over four years ago. Based on that list and statements made in that sermon, Tom has concluded that I believe and teach that we will be lost unless we are willing to receive into the church all the things on that list (including abortion, bartending, girlie magazines, divorce and remarriage, etc.).

If this were true, any and all qualifying limitations I make to the scope of Romans 14, no matter how insistent, could and should be ignored. Anything I say should be filtered through the idea that I required the church to accept all these things. Any representation to the contrary would be a farce. His representations of me do not need to conform to what I say I believe, as long as he views that chart as he does. The understandable result is that he attributes to me a concept that is so vile and evil that it makes me sick to my stomach. I deny and utterly repudiate his charge.

His view of the chart contradicts what I said about its purpose the only time it was shown in the lesson at Longview. I was introducing Romans 14, a chapter designed to produce peace (v. 19) and was emphasizing the need for such a chapter. I did this by pointing out that the fusses and fights I had seen in this area were virtually limitless. I said the purpose of the chart was, “To just illustrate the wide range of things brethren have dissension over …” Furthermore, I indicated that I did not believe this chapter could solve all these problems. “Now when we follow Romans 141 believe we can eliminate, certainly a major part of that dissension

The fact of the matter is, I do not believe any issue on the chart always belongs in Romans 14. The only item actually mentioned in the sermon was “bustles.” Descriptions of conflicts on this subject are described in the journals of the past. At times the issue grew to be congregational, which put it outside the scope of Romans 14. Winking is on the chart. Believe it or not, this became an issue where I preached years ago, and it became a significant disturbance to the congregation, therefore, it ceased to be an individual matter. Church discipline was eventually exercised. Since no item can always be put in Romans 14, it should be obvious that charging Don Patton with believing all 100 items belong in Romans 14, is a terrible injustice.

This interpretation of the list clearly contradicts what was said in the lesson. For example:

Now we are not saying that you don’t distinguish between truth and error and you don’t expose false teachers and you don’t warn those that are lost or you don’t practice church discipline toward those who won’t repent. That’s not what’s being said at all.

Of course, if I used the list as brother Roberts insists, such statements should be ignored.

An outline of the sermon was handed out when preached. The following is an excerpt:

1. Some judging required (Jn. 7:24).

a. Determining truth and error (Matt. 7:15-16).

b. Exposing what is false (Tit. 1:10-11,13).

(cf. Christ, Paul, Stephen, John the Baptist)

c. Warning lost of lost state (cf. Ezek. 33:8).

In spite of such statements found in the very sermon in question, clearly contradicting his charges, he publishes that I am in the same category with those who “make a philosophical defense of the practice of sin … defend and embrace sinful doctrines and practices …”

While we see clear statements in the sermon which present virtually the precise opposite of brother Roberts’ interpretation, there is a passage, toward the end of the sermon, that I can now see is subject to misunderstanding. I must admit, especially in light of the present furor, that the wording is just plain dumb. But, at the time, I was not particularly on guard against misunderstanding. Obviously, I made no special effort to avoid an impression I had not contemplated. The chart was not shown but mentioned in connection with the point that there are many more individual issues among brethren than congregational. Rather than trying to identify the specific issues that belong in chapter 14, I was using the chart to emphasize the great number of individual issues. I was feebly trying to make the point that this largest category (individual issues) is where we really need help and Romans 14 is designed to help with this great need. Reading it now, I can understand someone misunderstanding. However, with my emphasis added, one should be able to see what I meant to communicate.

And so, when we are dealing with factious individuals that destroy the unity and the enthusiasm and the souls that could be reached with such enthusiasm, when we are dealing with the public proclamation of false doctrine or when we are dealing with issues that all are necessarily involved in, then we’re not dealing with the things that this chapter described, but rather we’re dealing with individual issues such as we had on the chart earlier. Now you notice that this last chart is lots smaller than the other one. There aren’t that many congregational issues. There are a whole lot more than we’d like for there to be. But there are exactly ten times as many on the first chart as on the one we just looked at. And I think that really understates the relationship. There are many more individual issues over which brethren fall out regarding and these are things addressed in this chapter for which there is no excuse when we have dissension and falling out among brethren regarding instructions.

The question is, what is the antecedent of “these…” in the phrase “these are the things mentioned in the chapter.” Is it the “many more individual issues” in the same sentence? Or is it “the chart” mentioned four or five sentences earlier? I was taught that one generally should give preference to the closest antecedent. I readily admit, other interpretations are possible, but so is mine and I have an advantage. I know what was in my heart. Others do not.

Inept as the effort was, I do believe those who heard the lesson in 1990 understood. Brother Leonard Tyler has-been associated with the church at Judson Road for over 20 years and presently serves as an elder there. He was in attendance when this sermon was preached and while we are not in agreement on all points regarding Romans 14, he makes the following statement:

I believe that Don Patton, in his introduction to Romans 14, presented a large number of issues just to illustrate the division that has prevailed among brethren. He explained that Romans 14 could help solve some of them. I did not hear, and do not believe Don tried to teach that all things on the chart had to be accepted by the church, or were justified by Romans 14. As far as I know no one else understood Don in that manner when the sermon was preached.

It is a rare preacher who has not said things in the pulpit which could be misunderstood. I do not believe I am alone. When our brethren transcribe extemporaneous presentations, scrutinizing each word in search of a motive other than the one expressed, and disallowing fervent disavowals, our brethren are not acting like brethren.

Scripture does not leave us free to believe what we will. We are commanded to love, and love “believes all things, hopes all things” (1 Cor. 13:7). In other words, we must put the best possible construction on a brother’s action. We must give him the benefit of every doubt. It appears that some are unwilling to do that. Scripture demands that we cannot know and should not try to determine what is in another’s heart (2 Citron. 6:30; I Cor. 2:11; 4:5). Yet some are laboring long and hard to do that, to prove that what I really meant was different from what I said. I know what I meant; they do not know. I have a right to be dogmatic. They do not.

When love fails, brethren become less generous and more certain that they know what their brother really meant. They draw their conclusions and become immovable, “proving” what was really meant with reasons that may sound very reasonable. They proclaim, “There is no possibility that I misunderstood. I am not misrepresenting.” At this point, denials are useless, except to produce greater determination to find more “evidence.” However, there are very good reasons for rejecting the attributed interpretation.

1. It contradicts the purpose stated the only time the chart was shown.

2. It contradicts principles stated in the lesson.

3. It is not the only interpretation of the other quoted portions of the sermon.

4. We are required to grant charitable alternatives, to give brethren the benefit of the doubt: We are commanded not to judge another’s heart.

In view of these reasons, continued insistence on an appalling interpretation, contrary to my avowed explanation, is evil surmising (1 Tim. 6:4).

Most would agree that it is naive to expect all of us to reach the same conclusion on every passage at the same time. We may not reach the same conclusions on Romans 14 but I pray that brethren will not attribute to me the horrible position charged by brother Roberts. If love is exercised we should easily be able to proceed with a brief explanation of what I do believe about the chapter. Of course, those who continue to believe I require the acceptance of all things on the list will be wasting their time.

What Does the Chapter Say?

The problems that are considered in the chapter are illustrated in the following diagrams.

Unfortunately, in a danger-fraught effort to prove that the chapter deals only with incidental matters, phrases describing the second problem (good, pure, etc.) are taken out of that context (addressed to the strong) and applied to first problem (address to weak and strong). The first situation, in contrast to the second, involves standing or falling and a predicted transition from falling to standing (v. 4). It is a tortured exegesis that calls this good and pure. We can’t help being reminded of those in Isaiah’s day who tried to “call evil good” (Isa. 5:20).

Just Incidentals?

There are good reasons for believing that we are being told how to treat a brother who has fallen and is in need of being made to stand. Adequate defense of that proposition would require at least an entire article. However, consider that one issue involved observing a day to the Lord (vv. 5-6); not observing something on that day but observing the day itself. Notice Thayer’s definition of the word translated observe: ” . . . to regard a day, observe it as sacred, Rom. xiv. 6; …” (658). This religious observance was unauthorized (Matt. 15:9,13). Of course, most commentators see no problem here, but we should.

However, brother Roberts says that God received this brother in his meat eating. The passage does not say that. it says God received him (aorist tense) in the past, however the standing and falling is described in the present tense and the eventual standing in the future tense. The proper conclusion from the fact that God once received him is not that he is always received, rather, that he is a brother in Christ and is due special attention (Gal. 6:10).

It appears that some have been so concerned about what the passage does not say that they have missed its purpose and eliminated any practical benefit for today, at least from the first section of the chapter. This is the area where peace was missing. When brethren are “head to head,” inevitably, at least one thinks the issue is a matter of faith. This is why the weak brother was “judging.” If we tell such brethren this section does not apply to matters of faith, how can it produce peace? I challenge brother Roberts to name one issue among us where one side does not think it is a matter of faith. If he cannot answer the challenge, he is admitting that the part of Romans 14 designed to produce peace cannot be applied to a single issue among us.

He may respond, telling us that thinking it is a matter of faith does not make it so, which is certainly true. But, where does that leave you? Right where we started. No peace. The attitude is very close to the problem addressed in the second section where the strong brother selfishly insisted he was right without putting himself in his brother’s shoes, refusing to look from his brother’s perspective.

Boundaries

If sinful matters that separate man from God are involved in part of this chapter, from what we read in the rest of the Scripture, there must be boundaries, limitations to scope, such as we see regarding the acceptance of sinful brethren during forbearance, patience, etc. Of course, if all the items on the list must be accepted, virtually any stated boundaries should be ignored.

1. A Believer. The most obvious qualification tells us that those under consideration are not aliens. They have been received by God (v. 3). Those who are pushing the Trojan horse often ignore this specification. It is inexcusable.

2. An Individual Issue. Almost all expositors acknowledge that this chapter deals exclusively with individual action. That necessarily excludes a host of issues. Any issue that involves joint participation or that affects the church is excluded. Consider some examples which I clearly stated would be excluded by this qualification in the outline of my 1990 sermon.

Individual Matter

“Each man,” v. 5 “Unto Lord,” v. 6; v. 4 1…. doesn’t necessarily affect the whole.

2. Can’t be partaker in sin! (1 Tim. 5:22)

a. Congregational action involves all.

b. Examples: ins. music, burning candles, wrong use of money.

3. Public teaching involves others (2 John 11; Gal. 2:5).

4. Factiousness destroys unity, enthusiasm, souls (Tit. 3:10).

The deluding influence of his conclusion about my list is truly powerful. His charges demonstrate that he refuses to acknowledge that these limitations define my teaching in the very sermon he transcribed.

Issues of divorce and remarriage may only involve personal convictions, inward questions about whether or not adultery is involved. However, when this sin is “conceived,” it involves more than the individual.

Practice Of Adultery An Individual Matter?

Adultery always involves at least three. That makes a crowd, not an individual. Therefore it cannot be covered under this chapter. Efforts to use this chapter as a Trojan horse to introduce error on divorce and remarriage that results in adultery, find an invincible roadblock in Romans 14.

When brother Roberts used my quotation to “prove” that I include issues of divorce and remarriage in Romans 14, he failed to acknowledge my distinction between the practice of adultery and individually held personal convictions.

Now if anything is of an individual nature, like the covering question or the carnal warfare question, it would be the personal convictions regarding divorce and remarriage.

Evidently, brother Roberts sees no distinction. Does this indicate he is ready to draw lines of fellowship over individual personal convictions? If so, he is a very dangerous brother. If he does recognize this distinction, why did he misrepresent me?

Another excuse for his claim that I include moral issues like divorce and remarriage in the principles of Romans 14is his assertion that I “… twice applied them to a situation in which the teacher of a teenage Bible class sponsored a beach party.”

The outline of the lesson to which he refers (not the Longview sermon) reveals that this situation was discussed under the heading of forbearance. The point was in response to a statement by another brother which illustrated a ridiculous inconsistency in the practice of forbearance; continue to study for hundreds of years on some issues while allowing no more than one hour’s study time on another. In contrast to that extreme lack of forbearance I gave three illustrations of forbearance that did bring positive results. The Bible class teacher was one of these three. Brother Roberts implied that I required acceptance of this sinful practice. He failed to mention a number of significant factors which I included in that illustration, which demonstrate that charge is false:

 The practice was brought to a screeching halt.

 The brother was removed from the class.

 The brother was personally rebuked.

 Strong teaching against immodest apparel continued from pulpit.

 In the following years the brother became one of the finest elders I have ever known. He powerfully, effectively taught against immodest apparel.

Furthermore, with this brother, the issue never was, “Shall we practice lascivousness?” Rather the issue was, “Is it lascivousness?” This distinction does not affect the nature of sin or its consequences. It should affect how we treat the individual involved.

3. Conscientious. The Holy Spirit specifies that the brother who receives the treatment urged in Romans 14 must “be fully convinced in his own mind” (v. 5). This is a brother who loves the truth like those the Holy Spirit describes with the same word in Colossians 2:12, “fully assured in all the will of God.”

This brother stands in contrast to the one in 1 Corinthians 5 who was proud of sin so disgusting that even the Gentiles knew it was immoral. Romans 2:14-15 tells us that Gen-tiles had principles of the law written in their hearts.

For when Gentiles who do not have the Law do instinctively the things of the Law, these, not having the Law, are a law to themselves, in that they show the work of the Lord written in their hearts, their conscience bearing witness, and their thoughts alternately accusing or else defending them (NASV).

Romans 1 affirms that the knowledge of God’s power and nature which the Gentiles knew (v. 21) came from the things that were made, the wonders of creation (v. 20). This source would not provide them with knowledge of the moral principles for which Paul says they are accountable in chapter 2. These principles were written in their hearts. Their conscience accused when they violated them (v. 15). We are not told how they came to be written there. Certainly, the Word is the absolute standard by which in the Gentile’s heart but not in the heart of the truth-loving brother of Romans 14. If the same things that were every thought must be measured. However, I see no supplanting of the Word in the view that we have embedded within us the confirming awareness that some things are wrong, the things for which the Gentiles, without revelation, were held accountable in Romans 2.

My point is, no matter how this knowledge got in their hearts, it was there. It is unreasonable to assume that it was in the Gentile heart were in his heart, he could not conscientiously engage in the practices for which the Gentiles were condemned in Romans 2. Therefore, those issues violating fundamental principles of morality would necessarily be excluded by the Holy Spirit’s requirement that he be “fully convinced” (NKJV); “fully assured” (ASV).

My father, Marshall Patton, made a similar point on this subject in an article published 18 years ago in Searching the Scriptures and reprinted in the book, Answers For Our Hope.

It should be observed, first of all, that the things under consideration in these chapters (Rom. 14 and 1 Cor. 8) are matters of personal indulgence in the realm of positive law. . . . Matters of positive law stand apart from those of moral law…. Clean and unclean meats, as well as days to be observed definitely fall into the category of positive law” (226-227).

We summarize the effect, the limitations provided by these divine qualifications, in the following chart.

God’s Barriers

“God has received”

Conscientious Alien Excluded

`fully convinced”

Rebellion Excluded

Moral Issues Excluded

“to his own master”

Promotion Excluded

Factiousness Excluded

Joint Participation Excluded

It Issue Affects Church, Excluded

The limitations of a single article serving several purposes, preclude a complete exegesis. However, one should be able to see a huge difference between brother Roberts’ interpretation of my position and what I actually teach. We are trying to fight the same battle. We both believe those pushing the Trojan horse desperately need to be stopped. But we need effective, scriptural arguments to accomplish this critical task. Space limitations preclude a consideration of inconsistencies in his position and practice. The approach herein proposed is more consistent with Scripture and more self-consistent, when accurately represented. It will, inevitably, produce better results because it reflects divine wisdom.

(Note: The 1990 sermon was an abbreviated version. This article is, necessarily, even more condensed. I was asked to present an exegesis of Romans 14 to a group of preachers in Dallas, November of 1994. A video tape of this relatively complete, up to date presentation will be provided with a full outline, free of charge upon request. You may write, or call 1214-279-5325)

Guardian of Truth XXXIX: 4 p. 18-22
February 16, 1995

Miscellaneous Thoughts

By Larry Ray Hafley

The Trouble With…

-loose living sing is that it puts one in a tight place.

-a crooked heart is that one cannot live straight.

-life apart from God is that it leads to eternity apart from God.

-backbiting that it bites back.

-souls in sin is sin in souls.

-being close to truth is that one is still far from right.

-sin is death

-the pleasure of sin are their eternal after effects

-having money to burn is that it leads the soul to the same end.

The Cross, Then The Crown

Jesus received his crown of glory and honor, but only after he endured the cross (Phil. 2-8-11; Heb 2:9). We, too, want our “crown of life,” but we want it without having to bear our cross (Lk. 9:23). It will not work that way. As Jesus could not reign as King until he suffered as a servant, so we cannot reign with him until we have humbled ourselves as servants (Rev. 2:10; 3:21). We often are selfish. We want to be pampered and babied and crowned. We do not want to suffer, but we want the eternal prize. “Lord, is it I?”

“‘Regardless of the Consequences”

The determined general said to his army, “Men, this area must be taken and secured, regardless of the consequences.” “That is how Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego served the Lord. They told the pagan king that they would not worship the golden image,” regardless of the consequences (Dan. 3:17, 19). Do we serve the Lord only because it is convenient to do so? Do we attend services, sing, give, and pray only when it is easy to do? When things go wrong, when we feel discouraged and disappointed, do we still serve the Savior? Brethren, our faith, hope, and love in the Lord must be “taken and secured, regardless of the consequences” (Acts 20:22-24).

The Untamed Tongue

James said, “the tongue can no man tame” (Jas 3:8). It is true. We cannot tame our tongues. But what do you do horse than cannot be tamed? You may put him in a corral and shut the gate; you may put a bridle on him. What should we do with our untamable tongues? We may confine them in the corral of our mouths and keep it shut. We may also put a bridle on it. “I said, I will take heed to my ways, that I sin not with my tongue: I will keep my mouth with a bridle while the wicked is before me” (Psa. 39:1).

May the Lord help us to muzzle our minds and mouths and to put a bridle on our tongues, for I am purposed that my mouth shall not transgress (Psa 17:3).

Guardian of Truth XXXIX: 5 p. 4
March 2, 1995

“Adultery” in Matthew 5:32

By Paul K. William

In Matthew 5:32 Jesus tells what happens when a man divorces his wife when she is not guilty of fornication, “but I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except for the cause of unchastity, makes her commit adultery; and whosoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery” (NASB)

“Adultery” is defined in The Shorter Oxford English Dictionary as: “1. a. Violation of the marriage bed; sexual relation of a married person with one who is not his or her lawful spouse, whether unmarried (single adultery) or married to another (double adultery). In moral theology sometimes extended to irregular sexual intercourse gen.; in biblical use, idol-worship, idolatry (cg. Fornication).

It is easy to understand what Jesus was saying. J.W. McGarveys comments on this passage (Fourfold Gospel 242) clearly state what the ordinary Bi9ble student sees in this verse: “the mere fact of divorce did not make her an adulteress, but it brought her into a state of disgrace from which she invariably sought to fee herself by contracting another marriage, and this other marriage to which her humiliating situation drove her made her an adulteress.”

In his book Marriage & Divorce, John L. Edwards says that “adultery” in Matthew 5:32 and Matthew 19:9 does not refer to sexual immorality. He says it means “the breaking of a covenant” (56). In my previous article “What Does Adultery Really Mean?” Guardian of Truth 28:208) I showed that Edwards was not being true to the meaning given in the Greek lexicons, and that he was not being true to the standard translation of the Bible. He has invented his own definition of the word and has had to retranslate the verses where the word is found.

In the next paragraph is Edwards translation of Matthew 5:32. Note that in his translation he does not use the meaning “breaks a covenant” to translate the words “commit adultery.” He had to find another word because to use “breaks covenant” would show that his definition cannot work. If we substitute Edwards definition (on p. 56 of his book) for the words in the Bible we get; “but I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except for the cause of unchastity, makes her break a covenant, and whoever marries a divorced woman breaks a covenant.” That comes dangerously close to meaning real, old-fashioned adultery, doesnt it? How can the woman be caused to break the covenant when the man is the one who broke the covenant by putter her away? How can the second man break the covenant when he had nothing to do with her divorce? The only way is if the breaking of the covenant is the sexual act of adultery! So Edwards avoids this translation.

Here is how Edwards translates Matthew 5:32: “But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for fornication, makes her adulterated, and anyone who marries the divorce woman is adulterated” (123).

No Greek dictionary that I know of allows the use of “adulterate” to mean “commit adultery.” Edwards is just making up his own meaning. But read his translation again. It doesnt even make sense. If you figure out how the divorced woman and the man who marries her are “adulterated,” please let me know! Edwards talks about “defilement” without guilt. How can one be defiled and not have guilt? His explanation is full of double-talk.

The best he can do with English translations of the Bible is to quote two translations which were made before the King James Bible was translated. The Tyndales Bible says, “But I saye unto you: that whosoever doth put awaye his wife (except for fornicacion) causeth her to break matrimony. And whoever maryeth her that is divorsed, breaketh wedlock.” But that is quite clear to me. ” Break matrimony” and “breaketh wedlock” refer to breaking the marriage vow by sexual intercourse with one who is not ones spouse. It if a delicate way of saying “commits adultery.” The “Great Bible” says, “But I saye to you: that whosoever doth put awaye his wife (excepte it be for forycacyon) causeth her to break matrimony. And whosoever maryeth her that is divorsed committeth advoutrye.” This does not help Edwards cause at all!

When I asked brother Piet Joubert to define the word “adultery” in Matthew 5:32 and Matthew 19:9 he answered, “it means to divorce for a cause other than fornication and marry another.” But that definition will not work in Matthew 5:32. Suppose the man who marries the divorced woman was never marred before. He has not divorced and is not marrying again. The definition will not work!

Those who contend for a sexless adultery in Matthew 5:32 are in a hard place. It is no wonder that in the Hicks-Smith debate Olan Hicks refused to define the word “adultery” in Matthew 5:32 and 19:9. He talked all around the issue, saying what it did not mean but never gave the proper translation of the word. This clearly dishonesty and deception.

If someone teaches that adultery in these passages does not refer to sex, make that person define the word and then use the definition in both verses. He cant do it? The only definition that will work is the one given in all Greek dictionaries. Adultery is sexual intercourse of marred person with one to whom that person is not married.

The consequence of what Jesus teaches in Matthew 5:32 is that the person who is put away, whether for fornication or any other cause, commits adultery (sexual immorality) when he or she marries again, and the person who marries the divorced one is committing adultery (sexual immorality) in that marriage. It is because we do not like the consequence that the new definition of adultery is being preached. Be careful, brethren. Listen to Jesus, even when it means that we must live a life without marriage. Make sure that in the judgment day you will be among those who have been walking in the light.

Guardian of Truth XXXIX: 5 p. 5
March 2, 1995