Truth Magazine

By Mike Willis

I enjoy sports. I played high school football and ran track. I use to root for the University of Texas when they had a football team and have dreaded Thanksgiving Day for several years because I know that the Texas Aggies are going to defeat them. My passion for football has been satisfied only by the success of the Dallas Cowboys. After moving to Indiana, I learned that there was another sport being played outside of Texas called basketball. After a few years, I learned to root for the Indiana Hoosiers, despite the antics of their coach Bobby Knight. Earlier this year, I really enjoyed their victory over the University of Kentucky much to the chagrin of our associate editor. I have written this to assure you that I enjoy sports.

But, America has become obsessed with sports  from pee wee leagues to professional competition. Recently, there have been several incidents reported on the sports page that have become the focus of state and/or national news. I think some of them deserve comment.

The Tonya Harding Story

A few weeks ago, a thug attacked Nancy Kerrigan, one of the United States’ best figure skaters, just as she finished practicing for the U.S. Nationals competition for a spot on the Olympic team. The man used a club to hit Kerrigan on the knee. She was unable to compete the next day.

As the story unfolded, the media were stunned by the knowledge that the motive for the attack was to cripple Kerrigan so that she could not compete against Tonya Harding. Harding’s body guard Shawn Eckardt, hit man Shane Minoaka, and getaway car driver Derrick Smith are negotiating plea bargains. Tonya’s ex-husband Jeff Gillooly has also been implicated and all involved are questioning whether or not Tonya was involved in the plot. To say the least, she surrounded herself with some unsavory characters.

What a change has occurred in sports. When we played football, we were taught to abide by the rules of the game and to play to win as hard as we could, but to accept defeat honorably. Far from molding character, some competition destroys character, as is evident in the Tonya Harding incident. The win-at-all-costs philosophy, the willingness to do anything honorable or dishonorable to gain an advantage over an opponent, has become an accepted part of sports.

In another time, coaches generally conducted themselves in such a way as to be a worthy example for young men to follow. Now coaches are sometimes the problem. Winning becomes so important that NCAA rules are violated to “buy” the best amateur athlete. The spirit of win at all costs has infected all levels of athletics, from professional levels to pee wee baseball. Organized sports is some-times more interested in winning than in being a wholesome, enjoyable activity that children do together.

The assault on Nancy Kerrigan and these rule violations remind us that big money is involved in sports. Where this kind of money is present the temptations that go with it abound and not even Olympic athletes are immune to temptation. The Tonya Harding story is a story about greed. It reminds us that what Paul wrote to Timothy is true: “For the love of money is the root of all evil: which while some coveted after, they have erred from the faith, and pierced them-selves through with many sorrows” (1 Tim. 6:10).

Confessions of Sin

Another story that attracted attention in Indiana was an incident in a basketball game that the Indiana Hoosiers played. Coach Bobby Knight’s son Pat plays for the Hoosiers. In a recent game, he made a bad pass, the ball was intercepted, and the other team scored a basket. Bobby Knight called time out and proceeded to verbally assault his son for his errant pass. When his son sat down on the bench, Knight continued his harangue and proceeded to kick his son (some say a chair).

The president of Indiana University suspended Knight for one game and a statement of apology appeared in the Indianapolis Star. I am writing from memory, but Knight’s statement went something like this: “I am sorry if I have offended any true Indiana fans.” That reminds me of some of the confessions I have heard about at church services. There is nothing in the confession that says, “I was wrong for what I did.” Rather, the confession is “I am sorry if I have offended anyone.” Such a “confession” acknowledges no wrong committed and manifests no intention to change one’s conduct. It is more a confession that the other person over-reacted to something than an admission of wrong.

The Lord revealed that sin is properly corrected by repentance, confession and prayer. He said, “Confess your faults one to another, and pray one for another, that ye may be healed. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much” (James 5:16). Again, “If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness” (1 John 1:9). Such a confession, acknowledges that the conduct is sinful, confesses his participation in it, and calls upon God to forgive the sin. Too many confessions are more like those of Bobby Knight than like the Lord commanded.

A couple of days ago, Georgetown University’s coach, James Thompson, was ejected from a game. I do not know what he did. The next day the paper recorded Thompson to have said, “I was wrong. The referees did the right thing in throwing me out.” I appreciated his acknowledgement of wrong committed. I don’t know much about Georgetown’s coach, but the way he handled this incident commended him to me.

Obsessed with Sports

I remember reading a synopsis of the five reasons for the Decline and Fall of the Roman Empire by Edward Gibbon in which he listed the Romans’ obsession with sports at the coliseum as a cause of the fall of the empire. I did not understand how or why that could contribute to the fall of a nation until I have witnessed it in our own age. The obsession with sports is one thing that is rooting out spirituality. We don’t have time for God because of basketball practice, the bowling league, one’s favorite team is playing on ESPN, or going to a professional game. And sports preempts every other event. When a conflict between worship services and sports occurs (whether practice or the game), sports usually comes out on top.

A few days ago there was a great basketball game between Purdue University and Indiana University. Both teams were ranked in the top ten and it was a very good game, even though Purdue won. The game was played at Lafayette, Indiana and the house was packed, although the temperature outside was -270 with a wind chill factor of -500. The next evening was worship and temperatures were approximately the same and a light snow was falling. We cancelled services. I did not disagree with the decision to cancel worship services, but doesn’t it say something about our society’s emphasis on sports that the game would be played before a packed house and the next night worship services were cancelled? Anybody who went to the ballgame was a true “fan,” but anyone who went to worship in weather like that is a religious fanatic or nut!

America needs to become balanced in its attitude toward sports. Paul wrote, “For bodily exercise profiteth little: but godliness is profitable unto all things, having promise of the life that now is, and of that which is to come” (1 Tim. 4:8). We enjoy watching sports, but let us remember how little sports really matter and concentrate on godliness.

Guardian of Truth XXXVIII: 5, p. 2
March 3, 1994

By Bobby R. Holmes

On November 13, brother Charles Howard and I made a return visit to Sturgis, Mississippi. We were on our way for a gospel meeting with the Laws Hill church near Oxford. (Brother Howard helped in the construction of the Sturgis building and has led singing for me for the last three years in my meetings with the Laws Hill church.) We arrived in Starkville (near Sturgis) late Friday night the 12th and the next morning we had breakfast with Clark Busbee, the local evangelist for the Louisville Street church in Starkville, and brother Alexander Caldwell, the local evangelist for the Sturgis church.

Brother Caldwell is doing an excellent work in Sturgis. He has a radio program each Saturday that he partially pays for out of his own pocket. He is getting a lot of response from the program. Several people have been interested enough in the truth preached to contact brother Caldwell for further discussion. He has met with one group of several people to discuss the Bible with them and has at least one man who is attending regularly as a direct result of the program. Also, he has made great in-roads in the community itself with some attending regularly. There is great potential for the Lord’s work in Sturgis.

After visiting for a while at breakfast, we went out to the Sturgis community to visit sister Lela McCarter. She had recently suffered a heart attack and had just returned home from the hospital. Though she was not at that time able to get out of the house, she was making good progress and has since been able to return to worship services. She told us that the thing she missed most was being able to be in the assemblies. What a wonderful attitude. She has been a real support for the Lord’s work there in Sturgis. Her faith and dedication have encouraged and strengthened the others when all looked so dark and hopeless. It was so good to see her again.

We then went to the building to see it. It is being well cared for and looks so nice. I had not seen it in a completed stage. The pews that were purchased really put the finishing touch to it. (We were able to purchase some excellent used pews from another church.) We carried some Bibles with us for use by the members but, it was obvious that we did not have enough. There are some things that are sorely needed by these brethren. Another dozen or so good Bibles, film strips (I have had excellent success with Jule Miller’s), a screen, and tape player. A projector has already been donated. Brother Caldwell tells me that he can put these things to very good use.

Also, brother Caldwell is still, in need of some $500.00 per month in support for the coming year. Is there a church out there, or an individual that can supply any of these things mentioned? Brother Caldwell is very worthy of any help that can be supplied and the church at Sturgis is a worthy group of God’s people that can and will use the things you might send. If you can help in any way, please contact brother Caldwell at the following address: Alexander Caldwell, 201 Lynn Lane, Apt. #36, Starkville, Miss. 39759. Phone: 1-601-323-0435. It was so good to be able to make this return trip and see these good saints again. Please keep them in your prayers as they continue to spread pure New Testament Christianity in this community. Thanks again for the great support that so many of you gave in so many ways to make this dream for the Strugis church come true. May God richly bless you.

Guardian of Truth XXXVIII: 4, p. 17
February 17, 1994

By Larry Ray

Ours is an age in which style and symbolism have replaced substance. Kindly gestures are given when kindly deeds are demanded. The Bible speaks of this empty husk philosophy in these words, “If a brother or sister be naked, and destitute of daily food, and one of you say unto them, depart in peace, be ye warmed and filled; notwithstanding ye give them not those things which are needful to the body; what doth it profit?” (Jas. 2:15, 16) “Let us love not in word, neither in tongue; but in deed and in truth” (1 Jn. 3:18).

The physical example is readily recognized, but the Holy Spirit used it to illustrate spiritual truth regarding the nature of faith (Jas. 2). This lesson and its application are needed in the church today. There are those who whine and whimper, “There’s not enough love shown in the Church of Christ.” Who can disagree with that general complaint? Is it ever possible to show too much true love? However, this is not what the whiners mean. Their concept of love is syrupy sentimentalism; it is transparent symbol-ism, not solid, certain substance.

What the complainers desire is preaching that results in an emotional “feel-goodism.” They want worship to be an “experience of joy,” an ecstatic “rush” that makes them feel good about themselves. The term “feel” is a favorite of those “whose god is their belly” (Phil. 3:19). Listen for it. It will help you to discover the essence of their motivation. It is a “touchy-feely” religion. It concentrates on making people “feel good about themselves.” It is concerned with how people “relate” to what they have “experienced.” On the other hand, the gospel strips man of his self esteem; it reduces him to his lowest common denominator; it shows him his naked wretchedness, his bankrupt soul, his blindness and ignorance. It does not stroke his back or sympathetically pat him on the head. No, it pricks him in his heart; it stuns his conscience with remorse and regret. It enlightens his intellect. It does not want a man to “reflect” on how he “relates” to what he “feels.” It causes a man to reason, to understand, to repent and obey (Acts 2:37,38; 8:30,31; 26:18). See chart on page 9.

Are our critics showing love when they accuse us of not showing enough love? When we point out sins and errors, we are accused with not showing enough love. “There’s not enough love shown,” they say. Is that a loving charge? If your doctor saw a large tumor in your body, would he be showing love if he said to himself, “He needs an operation. It will be painful and expensive. I love him too much to put him through all of that. I will prescribe aspirin.” Would that be showing love?

“He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes” (Prov. 13:24). “Now no chastening for the present seemeth to be joyous, but grievous: nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby” (Heb.12:11). The teacher that spareth the rod of truth hateth his students, but he that loveth them chasteneth them early and often. Now no chastening correction by the word of God appears to produce joy when it is first administered; nevertheless afterward it yieldeth the peaceable fruit of righteousness unto them which are exercised thereby.

Context of “Love”

“Now I Paul myself beseech you by the meekness and gentleness of Christ” (2 Cor. 10:1). Those are sweet, tender words, but notice the words that immediately follow  “For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war after the flesh: (For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strongholds;) Casting down imaginations, and every high thing that exalteth itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ” (2 Cor. 10:3-5). Is “the meekness and gentleness of Christ” incongruous with the language of warfare and destruction? Some would have us to believe that it is. They have a perverted concept of love. They will not, therefore, see the “pulling down” and the “casting down” of false doctrines as being “loving” acts. Paul knew that first hand, saying, “though the more abundantly I love you, the less I be loved” (2 Cor. 12:15). The more love he showed them the less he was loved. It is true today. Those who do not know the nature of true love will accuse you of not “showing enough love.”

“Be ye therefore followers of God, as dear children: And walk in love, as Christ also hath loved us, and hath given himself for us an offering and a sacrifice to God for a sweet smelling savor” (Eph. 5:1, 2). Those are gentle, loving words. Notice their context. Begin with Ephesians 4:17 and read through 6:18. The ardent appeal that they “walk in love” “as dear children” is sandwiched between blunt words of command and condemnation. Was Paul following his own advice? Was he walking in love as a dear child of God when he spoke of people’s “ignorance,” “blindness” and “shame”? Is it possible for us to heed his command to “walk in love” as a dear child when we obey his command to “have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove (expose) them” (Eph. 5:11)? Well, is it?

Count the admonitions to godly living. How many “negative” reproofs and commands are given in the context of Ephesians 4:17-6:18? Was Paul specific? Did he cite certain, specific sins? Did he directly say that if one did certain things that he could not be saved? You know he did! Was he showing “love” when he did so? May a preacher today do the same thing and show love? Some say that he is “not showing enough love” if he “tells people what to do and what not to do, and that if they do not, they are going to hell.” They think that walking “in love” forbids specific naming of sin and warning of its condemnation if men continue in it.

Turn the question around. Does a man show true, Bible love if he refuses to tell men that their specific sins (cursing, drinking, immorality, dirty jokes, etc.) will cause them to be lost? Men who secretly love darkness rather than light will tell you that we are “not showing love” when we “condemn people” by citing their sins. Those who are “walking after their own lusts” will strive to convince you that we are not walking in love when we do as Paul did.

Did Paul show love when he “withstood” Peter “to the face, because he was to be blamed” (Gal. 2:11)? “But when I saw that they walked not uprightly according to the truth of the gospel, I said unto Peter before them all. . .” (Gal. 2:14). Was Paul showing love when he openly rebuked Peter and Barnabas? Was he? May we do so today? May we point out the errors of Peter, Barnabas, Guy Woods, Edward Fudge, Charles Holt or Homer Hailey and show love when we do so? Often those who are in sympathy with the erring brother’s doctrine will say that we are “not showing enough love” when we expose his teaching. Do not be moved away from the truth by such a charge. “Am I therefore become your enemy, because I tell you the truth?” (Gal. 4:16)

 

Whats Wrong With The Church of Christ?

“Theres not enough love shown”

 

1. Is That A Loving Charge??

 

 

1. Dr. Prescribes Aspirin Rather Than Surgery  Is That Love?

 

 

1. Prov. 13:24

 

 

1. Context of “Love”

 

A. Eph. 5:1,2– 4:17 — 6:18

B. 2 Cor. 10:1 — Z0:3-5

 

1. Did Paul Show Love? Gal. 2:5, 11-14

 

 

1. 1 Jn. 2:5; 5:3; 2 Jn. 6; Jn. I4:15, 2l -24; 15:10, 14

 

 

1. Make Critic Explain, Be Specific

 

 

Is it possible to “earnestly contend for the faith” and manifest love? Is it an either-or choice, or may we do both? To the Thessalonians, Paul said, “We were bold in our God to speak unto you the gospel of God with much contention …. But we were gentle among you, even as a nurse cherisheth her children” (1 Thess. 2:2, 7). Thus, one is not necessarily being mean and hateful when he boldly op-poses error “with much contention.” Critics would have you to believe otherwise, but do not be misled.

Commandments, Obedience And Love

Critics say, “We need compassion not commandments; we need love not law.” To them, showing love and compassion is the antithesis of preaching the law and commandments of God. They want to apologize for the demands of truth. They see this as being caring and compassionate. They see us as being cold, hard, harsh, unloving and uncaring. They imagine that we have no sympathy for the “felt needs of the whole man.” The following article by Dennis Gulledge illustrates this point.

We are facing a crisis with respect to the home in our land. Divorce is running rampant and the merciless toll upon men, women, children, the church, and the nation is devastating. How can the church help?

We must be compassionate toward those who have problems. But we must teach them God’s will regarding the home, marriage, divorce, remarriage. The false doctrines some are teaching do not help, but hinder. We must not be guilty of trying to accommodate the sins of the world, but teach people that forgiveness of sins comes through repentance and correction of the evil ways of life.

Because so many marriages have been broken without scriptural grounds, and because so many have remarried without God’s permission, some think the solution is to teach a different gospel regarding the subject. The truth, and only the truth, makes us free (John 8:32), not the ways of the world.

The preceding was written by James W. Boyd.

The May 1989 issue of the Christian Chronicle carried an article entitled, “Singles: Churches Encouraged New Ministries,” written by Joy L. McMillon. In it she says, “Clusters of churches have established divorce support groups, and some churches are down-playing the age-old difficulties with divorce and remarriage.” Question: How are these churches “down-playing the age-old difficulties with divorce and remarriage?” Answer: “Mike Washburn, singles minister at Richland Hills (Texas), says he presents the `five or six varied views’ of the question of marriage, divorce and remarriage to his group. `If some of the greatest minds in the church disagree on this subject, I am not going to come down definitively and say this is the way it is. I want our singles to have as many facts as they can (and) then wrestle with their own consciences.’

Does the fact that great minds differ on a subject, any subject, inhibit one from teaching the clear truth on that subject? God forbid! Does the fact that there are various views on the church, baptism, the second coming of Christ, instrumental music in worship, etc. demand that we preach a smorgasbord gospel, and say, “Here it is, folks, you can wrestle with your own consciences and decide what you want to accept”? Of course not, but this is what is done, by some, with the divorce and remarriage issue. Logic would demand that we do the same with everything else. We need the truth on this subject, and nothing else (Power, June 1993, p. 3)!

Are commandments, obedience and love incompatible? What saith the Scripture? The Holy Spirit equated these items thusly:

1. “For in Jesus Christ neither circumcision availeth any thing, nor uncircumcision; but faith which worketh by love” (Gal. 5:6). What avails? What is profitable? It is definitely not circumcision or uncircumcision, so, what is it that truly matters? “Faith which worketh by love.” Now, listen to the echo of this passage.

2. “Circumcision is nothing, and uncircumcision is nothing, but the keeping of the commandments of God” (1 Cor. 7:19). What matters? What is important? It is not circumcision or uncircumcision, so, what is it that really counts? “The keeping of the commandments of God.”

“Faith which worketh by love” is the same as “the keeping of the commandments of God.” To do one is to do the other. If we stress “the keeping of the commandments of God,” we are not neglecting or ignoring “faith which worketh by love.” We are establishing it! We should be complimented, not criticized and condemned.

If we are not showing enough love and compassion when we preach the divine demands of gospel obedience, will someone please explain the following passages to me?

If ye love me, keep my commandments…. He that hath my commandments, and keepeth them, he it is that loveth me. . . . If a man love me, he will keep my words. .. . He that loveth me not keepeth not my sayings (Jn. 14:15, 21-24). If ye keep my commandments, ye shall abide in my love; even as I have kept my Father’s commandments, and abide in his love. . . . Ye are my friends, if ye do whatsoever I command you (Jn. 15:10, 14). But whoso keepeth his word, in him verily is the love of God perfected (1 In. 2:5). For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments (1 In. 5:3). And this is love, that we walk after his commandments (2 In. 6).

Suppose we asked the Spirit of God, “What is love?” What will the Spirit tell us? “For this is the love of God, that we keep his commandments” (1 In. 5:3). What does your spirit tell you? “Beloved, believe not every spirit, but try the spirits whether they are of God: because many false prophets are gone out into the world. …We (the apostles) are of God: he that knoweth God heareth us (the apostles); he that is not of God heareth not us. Hereby (in this manner, in this way) know we the spirit (the teacher) of truth and the spirit (the teacher) of error” (1 In. 4:1, 6).

The real problem of the critics is that they chafe at the commandments they know they must obey. They resent them, and they resent those who call the commandments to their attention. They are of the world. They cannot fulfill their own lusts and be obedient to the gospel at the same time, so they seek a loophole, a way out. They will redefine “love” and create an ephemeral emotion of their own invention. They will speak so sweetly, so tenderly of love that you will never suspect their true motives. You will never believe that they want to redefine adultery, that they want to alter the work and worship of the church and replace the substance of the word of God with the symbol-ism of emotion. They want to applaud a baptism, accept the impenitent homosexual under the guise of compassion and softly hum a hymn while the Lord’s supper is being served. With tears in their eyes, they will bless and receive a couple who have been unscripturally divorced and remarried. They will tell you that “love compels it.” “These hurting people need someone who cares,” and, of course, they “care.” They care not for what the Son of God said (Matt. 19:9), but they “care” more than those who would “kick such people out in the street and refuse them a `church’ home.”

They will excuse their acceptance and compromise saying, “Every one that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God” (1 In. 4:7). They will not tell you, “And hereby we do know that we know him if we keep his commandments” (1 In. 2:3), or that “ye know that every one that doeth righteousness is born of him” (1 In. 2:29). No, they will not tell you that, for to do so would mean that they would have to define love according to the Bible and not according to their own values.

Let me give you a word of warning regarding those who call for more love and compassion and for less obedience to the commands and ordinances of God. If you openly oppose them, if you challenge their presuppositions, if you unmask their fraud, hypocrisy and deceit and show the true nature of love from the Bible, they will turn on you with vim, venom and vengeance. They will use every carnal weapon to abuse you. These same ones who speak “great swelling words” of love and compassion will show you very little of it! You will receive anonymous calls, cards and letters. You will be misrepresented. Your motives will be questioned. You will be called a troublemaker. It will be said of you that while they agree with “most” of what you say, your manners and methods are so hateful and despicable that no one can listen to you. Yes, these “loving,” “positive” people will manifest their true colors. Be kind, firm, patient, strong, resolute. Do not do anything that would tend to confirm their charges against you (1 Pet. 3:16). Stick with the Bible. Pray for them.

Guardian of Truth XXXVIII: 4, p. 8-11
February 17, 1994

By Donnie V. Rader

One of the commands of God that we sometimes act as if we haven’t read is the one that tells us to mind our own business. The text says, “that you also aspire to lead a quiet life, to mind your own business, and to work with your own hands, as we commanded you” (1 Thess. 4:11, emphasis mine DVR, NKJV).

Yes, the Bible actually tells us to mind our own business! Thus, we need to consider some ways we sometimes violate this instruction and just how serious that is.

It Is a Sin

Remember that sin is a violation of the law of God (1 In. 3:4). Since the law of God tells us to mind our own business and not another’s (1 Thess. 4:11), then it would be a sin to behave contrary.

In the second letter to the Thessalonians, Paul stated that there were some in the church who were “busybodies” (2 Thess. 3:11). A busybody is one who is not busied in his own business, but over busied in that of others’ (Vines). If he did not cease his practice, he was to be disfellowshiped (2 Thess. 3:6-15). That tells how serious being a busybody (minding the business of other people) can be. God said such a one is “disorderly.”

In 1 Timothy 5:13 Paul rebukes those who are idle, wandering from house to house telling things that they should not. He calls them “gossips and busybodies.”

Peter wrote that we should not suffer as a “busybody in other people’s matters” (1 Pet. 4:15).

How We Are Sometimes Guilty

1. In our conversation. Quite often we find ourselves talking about other people, their money, the things they do, what they buy and what we think about all of that. It may be that the things we talk about are personal which should not be of any concern to us.

Some take it on themselves to meddle by thinking they must tell others exactly what they think about their clothes, their hair, their weight or how they handle their money or children.

We sometimes ask questions about things that are none of our business. We sometimes ask how much someone makes, how much they spend or about conversations that do not concern us.

2. In family relationships. It is very easy for parents to mind the business of their children who are married and have families of their own. Some parents treat their grown children as if they were still kids, telling them what to do. When parents feel that they have to make critical comments on their grown children’s money, looks, clothes and children they are minding business that is not theirs. Why is it that some parents feel that they need hold the reigns on their adult children and meddle in their affairs?

Some are failing to recognize that a new family has been established and God has established the husband as the head of that family (Gen. 2:24; Eph. 5:31).

This sometimes is reversed. Children sometimes try to mind the business of their parents. Because of the close family ties we may feel free to meddle in the affairs of brothers, sisters, grandchildren, aunts and uncles.

3. Church-preacher relationships. Sometimes preachers feel that their role grants them the right to mind the business of some of the members of the church where they preach. He may try to tell them his opinion (not bound by the Bible) on how they ought to handle their affairs.

Sometimes members of the church try to mind the business of the preacher. A few will act as if they or the church owns the preacher. Preachers sometimes have some of their fellow-Christians to tell them how they should spend their spare time, who they should choose as friends and what his wife should do with her time. I once heard of a church that asked their preacher to bring a financial report of his personal expenses before the men in a business meeting. With tongue in cheek, he prepared one and commended them for the wonderful idea. He said he thought that every man ought to do the same so the men could watch for covetousness among the members. The men quickly decided that their first idea wasn’t necessary.

Be Careful of Extremes

As is true of any Bible principle, it is possible to go to one extreme or another. One extreme has been discussed above: minding another’s business. The other extreme is to think that no one should have a right to correct you or say anything critical. When a Christian becomes weak and lets sin hinder his service to God, other Christians are to try to restore him (Gal. 6:1). Efforts must be made to convert him from the error of his way (Jas. 5:19-20). However, that is not a violation of “mind your own business.”

Elders are to watch and rule over the souls of those who are members where they are serving (Heb. 13:7,17). They have the oversight of the flock of God (1 Pet. 5:2). That will involve talking to some of the Christians about how they live, train their children, treat their mates, etc. That again, is not a violation of “mind your own business.” However, a few may cry that it is none of their business.

Some Questions to Ask Yourself

Before we get too carried away asking questions, telling what we know or passing on our advice let us ask ourselves the following questions: (1) Is this really any of my business? (2) Have I been invited into this matter? (3) Will my action of asking or telling possibly do more harm than good? (4) Will others think that I am minding other people’s business?

Though our text (1 Thess. 4:11) is easy to violate, it is a text that we can obey. Let’s try!

Guardian of Truth XXXVIII: 4, p. 16-17
February 17, 1994