God’s Plan for the Home

By Eric Norford

This writer heard a story a few years ago about a twelve year old girl that came from a family that had split. The mother and father divorced after fifteen plus years of marriage. The father had been committing fornication with an eighteen year old girl. The father thought his children would understand and love his new wife. However their reaction was the opposite.

It is very sad to say that the majority of homes in our society are like this one: husband and wife divorce because one did not remain faithful to the vows each made before God and man. There are even homes that split for no reason. What is even sadder is that some Christians have divorced for no reason that is scriptural and some even for scriptural grounds.

What we need to do is go back to what the Bible says about the home. When we see what God wants in the home, then the problems we face as Christians, can be put to flight. What does God want in the home? He wants commitment from the husband and wife, father and mother, and children. Until all are committed to God and his ways in regard to the home, our homes and lives will not be pleasing to God.

Committed Spouses

God wants a husband and wife to be committed to each other. In Genesis 2:24, we find the institution of marriage given by God. God saw that is was not good for man to be alone, so he took a rib from man and made a woman and brought her unto the man. When Adam saw the woman, he made this statement from God, “Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave to his wife: and they shall be one flesh. ” God intended from the beginning that a man and a woman stay together for life. However, we find later that man began to take more than one wife and began to put away his wives. It is true that God allowed this to happen throughout the Old Testament, but “from the beginning it was not so.” God never intended for a man to have more than one wife. If he wanted that to occur, would he not have created two?

We have Jesus in Matthew 19:3-9 replying to the Pharisees’ questions regarding marriage-divorce- remarriage. Jesus goes back to the beginning of creation to show that God joined the man and the woman together and said, “What God joined together man was not to put it asunder.”

What we need today are spouses committed to each other. Wives are to be in subjection to their own husbands as the church is to Christ. Husbands are to love their wives as their own bodies. This is illustrated brilliantly in Christ and the church (Eph. 5:22-33).

Our young people need to be taught what God wants in a marriage relationship. One man for one woman for life. If they are not brought up this way, what will become of our society or the church?

Committed Parents

God wants committed parents. Children are a heritage of the Lord (Psa. 127:3-5) and a gift from God (Gen. 33:5). It is a tremendous responsibility to bring up children, Children are dependent upon their parents and parents need to be there for them. This means parents must spend time with their children. In our society, we have gotten away from this, In the 1930’s and ’40’s, parents spent about three to four hours daily with their kids; however, in the 1980’s and early ’90’s, parents spend about fifteen minutes daily with them (according to present statistics). Have you ever wondered why crime is up all across this country? Most of it has to do with children not receiving enough attention from father and mother. The gang problems throughout this country are a case in point. The child comes home from school to an empty house and becomes lonely. In order to cure the boredom, he will go out and do something just to receive the attention that he is craving. If parents will be there for their children, then the child is not as likely to go out and do something wrong.

According to Ephesians 6:4, “fathers are to bring up their children in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.” How can this be effectively done if the father spends little or no time with his child? If you train up a child in the way that he should go, then when he is old, he will not depart from it (Prov. 22:6). We need to tell our children Bible stories every day because a failure to do so could bring great pain for the parents.

Children also need to be disciplined when they do something wrong. This is for the benefit of the child, so when he gets older he will not do this wrong thing again. Parents, when they discipline, do it out of love. It is up to the parents to decide whether corporal punishment or something else should be used. The Scriptures talk about discipline in Proverbs; the wise man says on several occasions, “He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes” (13:24), “Chasten thy son while there is hope, and let not thy soul spare for his crying ” (19:18), ” Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die. Thou shalt beat him with the rod, and shalt deliver his soul from hell” (23:13-14), and “The rod and reproof give wisdom: but a child left to himself bringeth his mother to shame” (29:15). Discipline needs to be done or we will have a generation that will not be able to tell what is right or wrong.

We need parents committed to their children. They need to spend a great amount of time with them to tell them about God and life.

Committed Children

God wants committed children. Paul says in Ephesians 6:1-3, “Children, obey your parents in the Lord: for this is right. Honor thyfather and mother, which is thefirst commandment with promise,- that it may be well with thee, and thou mayest live long on the earth.” There is a movement among us that is trying to win children’s rights and involved with this are the following: children can do whatever they want, they can talk back to their parents, they do not have to obey them, they can sue their parents if they get a spanking, etc. God forbid! Children are to be in subjection to their parents. They are to obey their parents even if they don’t like doing what they were told to do.

Children will one day take care of their parents. When mom and dad get old in years and cannot do much, this is the time that children are to requite their parents (1 Tim. 5:4).

We need children committed to their parents and God, so they will teach their children the same way.

Conclusion

God has an answer for every aspect of the home, if we will only heed to what he says. Our homes will be better, and divorce will be the farthest thing from our minds. God does not like the home to be torn apart by man’s wisdom because he first instituted it and sustains it. Are we committed to our spouses? Are we committed to our children? Are we committed to our parents? If we are to be pleasing to God, we better be. May God help us to keep our homes pure.

Guardian of Truth XXXV: 17, pp. 518-519
September 5, 1991

What Is Written Equals Spirit Saith

By Larry Ray Hafley

The words of the Bible are the words of the Holy Spirit, “For the prophecy came not in old time by the will of man: but holy men of God spake as they were moved by the Holy Spirit” (2 Pet. 1:21). Paul affirmed this same truth concerning the New Testament (1 Cor. 2). He called it “the testimony of God” (v. 2), and “the wisdom of God” (v. 7). Those things ” revealed” and “received” were spoken and written, “not in the words which man’s wisdom teacheth, but (in words – LRH) which the Holy Spirit teacheth” (vv. 10-14; 2 Thess. 2:15; 1 Cor. 14:37). Thus, when we read the Bible, we are reading the revelation of the Holy Spirit.

Why is this important? Many religious people have no respect or reverence for the authority of the Bible as the word of God. Instead, they turn to their own priests, pastors, preachers and prophets as a source of divine revelation. What the Pope or some council or human decree declares is defended and given deference and preference over the Bible. They claim that the Holy Spirit provides inspiration and illumination through their church’s chosen leaders. They accept the words of these men as the words of the Spirit while they denigrate the Bible.

If you doubt this, why are the churches today holding their ecclesiastical conventions to decide such matters as women pastors, acceptance of homosexuality, and the qualifications of elders, bishops and priests? In part, it is because they do not view the Bible as the authoritative word of God, as a communication of the Spirit. It is necessary, therefore, that we “know assuredly” that the Bible is the word of the Spirit of God. As such, it is final, complete and absolute in power and authority (2 Tim. 3:16,17; Jude 3; 2 Jn. 9).

(1) In Jeremiah 36, the very words of God were written. “This word came unto Jeremiah from the Lord saying, take thee a roll of a book, and write therein all the words that I have spoken. . . . Then Jeremiah called Baruch . . . and Baruch wrote from the mouth of Jeremiah all the words of the Lord which he had spoken unto him, upon a roll of a book. And Jeremiah commanded Baruch . . . go thou, and read in the roll, which thou hast written from my mouth, the words of the Lord in the cars of the people. . . . And Baruch . . . did according to all that Jeremiah . . . commanded him, reading in the book the words of Jeremiah . . . . When Michaiah . . . had heard out of the book all the words of the Lord. . . ” (Jer. 36: 1-11).

The facts are too plain to miss. The words of the Lord were given to Jeremiah who spoke them to Baruch. Baruch wrote them in a book. When the words of Jeremiah were read, the people were hearing the word of God. The same thing is true today when we read the words of the Bible.

(2) In Hebrews 3:4, the writer cites Psalm 95:7-11. He says the text was that which “the Holy Spirit saith.” In Hebrews 4:7, the Hebrew writer again quotes Psalm 95, but this time he says that God spoke “in David,” or through David. As David said, “The Spirit of the Lord spake by (through – LRH) me, and his word was in my tongue” (2 Sam. 23:2; cf. Mic. 3:8). So, when we read the Bible, we are reading what “the Holy Spirit saith.”

(3) In Hebrews 8:8, the author refers to Jeremiah 31:31-34. The text in Jeremiah, the Hebrew writer says, is what “saith the Lord” (vv. 8, 9, 10). Again, in Hebrews 10:15, reference is made to Jeremiah 31. This time the author says, “the Holy Spirit also is a witness to us: for after that he had said before. . . . ” Then he quotes the passage in Jeremiah 31. Hence, “the Holy Spirit said” what was written in the passage. When we read the Bible, we are reading what “the Holy Spirit saith.”

(4) “Now the Spirit speaketh expressly, that in the latter times some shall depart from the faith” (1 Tim. 4:1). These are the express, explicit words of the Spirit, “the words of the faith” (1 Tim. 4:6 – NASB). When we read what Paul wrote, we are reading the word of the Spirit, “the commandments of the Lord,” “the word of God” (1 Thess. 2:13; 2 Thess. 2:15; 1 Cor. 11:23; 14:37). Paul’s words were Scripture, God breathed, received “by the revelation of Jesus Christ” (2 Pet. 3:16; 2 Tim. 3:16; Gal. 1:12; Eph. 3:3).

(5) “The revelation of Jesus Christ, which God gave unto him . . . and he sent and signified it . . . unto John: who bare record of the word of God and of the testimony of Jesus Christ. . . . Blessed is he that readeth, and they that hear the words of this prophecy, and keep those things which are written” (Rev. 1:1-3). Jesus told John, “What thou seest, write in a book and send it to the seven churches which are in Asia; unto Ephesus, and unto Smyrna, and unto Pergamos, and unto Thyatira, and unto Sardis, and unto Philadelphia and unto Laodicea” (Rev. 1:11).

Observe that to each of those seven churches, it was said, “Unto the angel of the church . . . write” (Rev. 2:1,8,12, IS; 3:1,7,14). After each church was addressed, each was told, “He that hath an car (churches have “ears” – Acts 11:22) let him hear what the Spirit saith unto the churches” (Rev. 2:7,11,17,29; 3:6,13,22). What was written was what “the Spirit saith.” When we read what “the holy apostles and prophets” wrote in the Bible, we are reading the “revelation of Jesus Christ,” and “what the Spirit saith.”

(6) In Revelation 14:13, John said, “And I heard a voice from heaven saying unto me, Write, Blessed are the dead which die in the Lord . . . saith the Spirit.” What John wrote came from a voice which came from heaven, and it was what the Holy spirit said. Can language be plainer?

Conclusion

At one time, and in various ways, God spoke unto the fathers by the prophets. Now, though, he speaks unto us through his Son, Jesus the Christ (Heb. 1:1,2; Jn. 7:16; 8:28; 12:49). The Holy Spirit guided the apostles into “all (not part, not some, but all) truth,” giving them “the revelation of Jesus Christ” (Jn. 14:26; 15:26,27; 16:13; Gal. 1:12; 1 Cor. 11:23; 14:37). When we read “their word,” we are reading what “the Spirit saith,” for Jesus gave unto the apostles the words which God gave unto him (Jn. 17:6,14,20).

Acts 2 demonstrates the texts above. Peter’s speech is recorded – “Peter . . . lifted up his voice, and said . . . hearken to my words . . . hear these words . . . let me freely speak” (vv. 14,22,29). But these words were spoken “as the Holy Spirit gave (him) utterance” (v. 4). What Peter said and what Luke recorded was what “the Spirit saith.”

What, then, is God’s will? What does the Holy Spirit say concerning baptism, women preachers, homosexuality, or any thing that pertains “unto life and godliness”? What saith the answer of God? We do not need a Catholic Pope nor a Protestant prophet to tell us. If we would know the truth of God on any question, if we desire to hear what the Holy Spirit saith on any topic or subject, we have but to read what the Bible says. Oh, how desperately do men need this lesson today as they vainly seek truth on numerous issues in the councils and conventions of men!

Guardian of Truth XXXV: 17, pp. 515-516
September 5, 1991

Think On these Things

By Mike Willis

We continue to examine Philippians 4 to learn principles of spiritual health which enable us to enjoy life’s best moments and to endure its adversities. We have previously emphasized that good spiritual health requires the following: (a) Rejoicing in the Lord; (b) Letting your moderation be known to all men; (c) Living with the awareness that the Lord is at hand; (d) Being anxious for nothing. Good spiritual health also requires that we think on those things described below:

Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things (Phil. 4:8).

Let us examine the teachings of this verse.

Mistaken Concepts Drawn From This Verse

In the last century, as the science of psychology developed, men began to study the power of thought over physical health. Mary Baker Eddy and several others reached the conclusion that thoughts control the body’s physical health. Christian Science taught that all disease was the result of wrong thinking; if man could quit thinking wrong thoughts, he could heal his illnesses. Others have developed similar, but less excessive, aberrations by teaching that “anything a person can think he can do” (see books on positive thinking) . If a person can control his thoughts, he can change his living conditions and his accomplishments. Believing this, efforts were made to control the subliminal thinking of man through various mind control techniques (such as listening to tapes played over and over) . The religious book stores are flooded with motivational books and other materials which teach the positive mental attitude philosophy. These authors have tried to “sanctify and cleanse” the positive mental attitude doctrines of its philosophical origins by the quotation and misapplication of several Bible passages, such as Proverbs 4:23 and Philippians 4:8. The positive thinkers have a philosophy toward life which was developed outside the Bible, is laced with false teaching, and leads to doctrinal consequences contrary to the revealed word of God. These philosophers write as if their philosophy was found by a careful study of the Bible when, in reality, the philosophy of uninspired men has been sugar coated with a few Bible platitudes to make it acceptable to the unsuspecting.

We will do well to avoid the excessive claims made from this verse in understanding what it is teaching.

A Scriptural Principle

The Bible truth which is recognized and expressed in this verse is that sin in one’s life springs from sin in one’s heart. If a person will keep his heart from meditating on sinful conduct, he will keep his life free from sin. (Notice that the passage is saying nothing about financial success, achieving promotions on the job, or other physical achievements.) Sin comes from the heart (Matt. 15:19). By keeping one’s heart pure, he can avoid the temptations of sin (Prov. 4:23 -“Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life”).

The heart should meditate on the word of God. Notice these verses which command us to fill our heart with God’s word:

But his delight is in the law of the Lord; and in his law doth he meditate day and night (Psa. 1:2).

Mine eyes prevent the night watches, that I might meditate in thy word (Psa. 119:148; cf. 119:15,23,48,78).

Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee (Psa. 119:11).

Paul specifically commands Christians to think on things which are:

a. True, in contrast to that which is false, a lie, whether it be with reference to God or man. H.A.W. Meyer says that “true” refers to “that which is morally true; that is, that which is in harmony with the objective standard of morality contained in the gospel.”

b. Honest, from the Greek ward semna, refers to things that are revered or venerated. The adjective describes persons in 1 Timothy 3:8,11 and Titus 2:2, where it stands opposed to double tongue, to intemperance and avarice, to slander and unfaithfulness. The AV follows the old English use of the word honest as derived from honorable. It is opposed to that which is mean, frivolous, indecorous, and unworthy.

c. Just are things which are in accordance with eternal and unchanging rectitude.

d. Pure points to that which is free from all debasing elements, clear in nature, transparent in purpose, leaving no blot on the conscience and no stain on the character.

c. Lovely describes “whatever modes of action tend to endear him that does them, to give him with others not simply the approval of their judgment, but to open for him a place in their hearts – whatever things breathe the spirit of that religion which is love, and the doing of which should be homage to Him who is Love.”

f. Of good report describes “things on being seen lead all who behold them to exclaim – ‘Well-done!’ – or indicate on the part of the actor such elements of character as are usually admired and well spoken of; deeds that sound well on being named, whether they consist of chivalrous generosity or meek condescension – a great feat or a good one – noble in idea or happy in execution. “

g. Virtue describes “moral excellence.”

h. Praise may be used of anything worthy of praise or of praise itself. (Note: the definitions given in this list are largely cited from John Eadic’s Greek Text Commentaries: Philippians).

Some Dangers To Avoid

Good spiritual health will be destroyed when we allow our minds to grovel in moral filth. With that in mind, we call attention to some dangers to good spiritual health.

1. Television. Television programs use sitcoms to undermine our moral values, whether it be through conversations which make moral righteousness look absurd and unattractive (think of the conversations which undermine moral righteousness regarding abortion, homosexuality, safe sex, etc.) or by desensitizing our conscience through repeated exposure to ungodly conduct (usually ungodly conduct is presented in such a way that one sympathizes with the ungodly and those who are morally upright are put in a repugnant light). Television displays nudity and other forms of lascivious conduct (dancing, heavy petting). One’s thoughts are exposed to moral filth if he has a steady diet of television.

2. Music. The music of today, whether it be rock or country western, glorifies drinking, fornication, drugs, and other forms of immoral conduct.

3. Literature. There are many pornographic magazines which are popular on the college campus. Many romance novels are little more than erotica.

To allow one’s mind to be filled with morally debased conduct will weaken his resistance to the temptation to sin.

Things Which Stimulate Good Thinking

There are some things which encourage higher thoughts more conducive to purer living. Here are some of them.

1. Reading the Bible. This should go without saving.

2. Considering God’s works. The psalmist wrote, “I will meditate also of all thy work, and talk of thy doings” (Psa. 77:12). We should meditate on God’s work in creation and in redemption.

3. Read good literature. If we can understand the need to warn brethren not to read such periodicals as Playboy, Penthouse’ Hustler, and other salacious literature, we should also see the need to recommend good literature to brethren, such as Guardian of Truth, Searching the Scriptures, Gospel Anchor, Gospel Truths, etc. We should recommend to our brethren good books which help them understand the Bible better and encourage them to read good literature.

4. Associate with good friends. Our friends have a powerful impact on what we think, through their conversations and deeds. We should avoid friends who tempt us to do things which God condemns (1 Cor. 15:33).

5. Listen to good music. I enjoy the good tapes of religious music which have been produced by the Favorite Hymns Quartet, the Guyer Brothers, and Florida College, as well as some produced by our liberal brethren. Our thoughts will dwell on a higher plane when listening to these good songs, rather than the country western and rock music played on the radio. One also can listen to the Bible, sermons and Bible classes on tape recordings as he travels.

Conclusion

Christians need to be reminded that they cannot fill their minds with moral filth and not expect the devil’s allurements and temptations to affect them. For this reason, God commanded that his children think on things which are pure. Conscious of this, David prayed, “Let the words of my mouth, and the meditation of my heart, be acceptable in thy sight, 0 Lord, my strength, and my redeemer” (Psa. 19:14).

Guardian of Truth XXXV: 17, pp. 514, 532-533
September 5, 1991

A Prayer for Boldness

By Dan King

The apostles Peter and John, having been arrested, threatened, and warned not to speak any more of Jesus, went back to their company and prayed: . . . grant unto thy servants to speak thy word with all boldness (Acts 4:30). Their prayer was heard. For, the Bible goes on to say that when they had finished their praying, they spake the word of God with all boldness (v. 31).

Apparently this was the greatest challenge to these disciples, who at first had shown themselves timid, and even cowardly. The gospel accounts speak of the apostolic band as having forsaken the Lord and fled into the darkness on the night of Jesus’ arrest (Matt. 26:56). Peter had followed him, but afar off (vs. 58). They knew where their greatest weakness lay, and for this they were praying.

What is most interesting about the context is that they had already shown considerable courage in preaching in the Temple in chapters two and three, and when confronted by the threatenings of the high priest and his cohorts at the Sanhedrin. Scripture records their brash reply to the questionings of the rulers, along with the reaction of these men: Now when they beheld the boldness of Peter and John, and had perceived that they were unlearned and ignorant men, they marveled. . . (4:13). One does not normally expect laboring men, such as these, to come before an auspicious tribunal like the Sanhedrin relaxed and confident in the way in which these men did. Luke explains that they were filled with the Holy Spirit (v. 8), but then goes on to record their prayer for courage. A comparable text appears in 2 Timothy 1:6,7, where Timothy is told to stir up the gift of God which was in him through the laying on of Paul’s hands, For God gave us not a spirit of fearfulness; but of power and love and discipline. Paul is evidently encouraging Timothy to overcome his natural timidity and speak up and speak out! Timothy had control of his own vocal chords, and his own daring or lack of it would determine whether he would do so or not.

It becomes clear, when these Scriptures are compared, that the words they spoke were from God as given by the Holy Spirit (as per the promise of Christ in Mk. 13:11), but the courage was their own! God supplied the words to speak, but it was up to them to get up the “gumption” to say them. That is why the apostles were praying for courage. They needed it!

There are a couple of very important lessons that we ought to learn from this observation. First, we should come to appreciate the dedication and courage of those first Christians in standing for truth. They were truly “men of like passions with us. ” They had to search their souls as we do before they spoke, knowing that their words might cost them a great deal. God did not turn them into robots and direct their actions in such a way as to accomplish his will. They had to gird up the loins of their mind, summon the fortitude to speak, and pull out all the stops. Someone has said that courage is “fear that has said its prayers.” In this case, that definition is completely appropriate.

A second lesson that can be gleaned here, is the fact that they prayed for that which they knew they needed. History is an excellent teacher, so is experience. The night of the betrayal had been branded into the memories of these men with absolute permanency. When that night was over they had been forced to look Jesus in the face, knowing how they had forsaken and denied him. Furthermore, now they knew they would again have to look him in the face to give account for their lives and words, along with all men at the judgment (2 Cor. 5:10). They were intent that they would not make the same mistake again!

Like them, we need to be praying for our weaknesses. We know those areas wherein we have sinned in the past, and if we are intent upon not repeating those errors, then we will pray for the strength to overcome them in the future. Moreover, we will take action when it is necessary to avoid situations and circumstances that lead to such sin.

If it is the courage to speak that we need, then we must know that God is not going to stand in our place for us and speak the words. Like the apostles he gives us what to say, but in our case supplies it to us in his Word. Again, like the apostles, it is up to us to take the first step in developing the courage to speak the truth. But God will be there to help: God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore will we not fear. . . (Psa. 46:1-2).

Guardian of Truth XXXV: 17, p. 525
September 5, 1991