The Preacher’s Wife

By Michael R. Baggett

That the preacher has the right to a wife is taught clearly in 1 Corinthians 9:5. Cephas (Peter) is said to have had a wife. Little is said about her, but I suppose she had many of the same problems and concerns the preacher’s wife has today.

I have no doubt that Peter’s wife was probably abused at times because of Peter’s preaching. She certainly had to sacrifice quite a bit as she followed her husband in his preaching. Who knows what she might have endured.

When I was preaching at Oak Grove, my wife was the first to learn when I was tapping on a sensitive nerve. Once, a sister in the church called my wife and told her, “Tell him he had better cool it!”

Recently, another preacher’s wife came crying to my wife about the way the sisters were treating her. This poor preacher’s wife has four children; one is just seven-months old. She said the sisters expected her to do all of the entertaining. One sister called her about her visit to an older shut-in. The sister who called informed the preacher’s wife that she did not appreciate her visiting one and not the other! How childish!

Poor preacher’s wife. No one ever offers to keep her children so she can worship more fully. No one offers to keep her children so she and the preacher can go out to dinner. Poor preacher’s wife. Her clothes and her children’s clothes must be wrinkle-free. Her house must be spotless at all times. I wonder why, no one ever visits her.

Perhaps this sounds somewhat silly. As silly as it may sound, it is the truth in some congregations!

The point is the preacher’s wife is often overlooked, misunderstood, and abused. She needs your friendship, not your criticism! She is human. She has feelings. If she is unhappy, the preacher’s work will eventually be affected. His job is already hard enough. Help him out. Help her out!

So, if you have a problem with the preacher, talk to him. Leave his wife alone. Don’t expect too much from the preacher’s wife. Treat her with kindness (Eph. 4:31,32).

Guardian of Truth XXXV: 15, p. 458
August 1, 1991

How Does One Know That He Is a “Genuine Believer?

By David V. Hurst

Imitations exist today on every hand; imitation gold, imitation leather, imitation flavors, the list is endless. The same thing is true of religion. We are aware that imitation religions exist on every street corner. However, is it possible that in the pews of those who call themselves after Christ, that imitations are there as well?

Self-examination is critical for the faithful child of God. He must continually scrutinize his life to avoid having a counterfeit faith. The genuine believer is not content with “occupying space” in a building during Sunday mornings but pursues his desire to be a “real” Christian. Peter offers tangible suggestions whereby we can confirm our claim as a believer in God (1 Pet. 1). Let us study these together as we remember the admonition of Paul, “Examine yourselves to see whether you are in the faith; test yourselves” (2 Cor. 13:5, NIV). How may we distinguish the “genuine” from the “imitation”? What are characteristics and attitudes of the genuine believer?

The genuine believer in God is sanctified by the Spirit of God. “Elect according to the foreknowledge of God the Father, through sanctification of the spirit, unto obedience and sprinkling of the blood of Jesus Christ: Grace unto you, and peace, be multiplied” (KJV 1 Pet. 1:2). The idea of being sanctified is that one is set apart for the special purpose of glorifying God. How is this accomplished?

The apostles were told to preach “repentance and forgiveness” when the power of the Spirit came (Luke 24:46-49). That power of the Holy Spirit (Acts 1:8) came in Acts 2 after which men were baptized for the remission of sins (Acts 2:38). Therefore, they were then set apart from the world; that is, they received the sanctification of the Spirit (Acts 2:47).

The genuine believer in God is a redeemed person through the sprinkling of the blood of Christ (1 Pet. 1:2,18,19). He had been a slave to sin (Rom. 6:16-18) but now is made free (Jn. 8:32) by the blood of Christ. As a former slave, he appreciates the ransom paid to set him free!

The genuine believer calls upon God with the knowledge that his father will judge him in the last day (1 Pet. 1:17). His prayers are serious. One does not fool God. “Neither is there any creature that is not manifest in his sight: but all things (are) naked and opened unto the eyes of him with whom we have to do” (Heb. 4:13, KJV).

The genuine believer in God is a child of obedience (1 Pet. 1:2,14). When one thinks of a child, it will have certain characteristics depending upon its parents. For example, the “child” of a dog will most likely bark, have a tail and four legs. “Children” of obedience are those whose “habit” and “characteristics” coincide with being “doers of the word, and not hearers only” (Jas. 1:22).

The genuine believer has his loins gird about with truth (1 Pet. 1:13; cf. Eph. 6:14). This is the figure of one who takes the long flowing garment he is wearing and tucks up its fullness into his waste belt so it will not hinder him in his task. He is preparing himself for the toil ahead. He is diligent in preparation (2 Tim. 2:15, ASV).

The genuine believer is one who endeavors to be holy as God is holy (1 Pet. 1:15,16). This is the intent of the religion of Christ. Our aspirations are to think, talk, and act like God. With each passing day we progress closer to being perfect as God is perfect and to being pure as God is pure. We yearn to allow God to live through us (Gal. 2:20).

The genuine believer possesses a living hope which anchors his life (1 Pet. 1:3). Without this, one will not fight as hard as he should (Rev. 2:10). This is the major thrust of the entire epistle of 1 Peter.

Guardian of Truth XXXV: 15, p. 462-463
August 1, 1991

The genuine believer does not fashion his life through the lusts of this world in ignorance (I Pet. 1: 14). The way one talks, dresses and even his entertainment is fashioned after the society he lives in. The believer in God refuses to be like the world but transforms himself into being like God (Rom. 12:1,2).

The genuine believer is sober (I Pet. 1: 13). He is sensible and level headed. His right thinking will not allow him to be side tracked from the reward he desires and expects to receive. He is self-controlled in his life rather than his life controlling him.

The genuine believer purifies his soul (I Pet. 1:22). He has made his life sinless not because he is perfect, but because he has repented and confessed his wrong. When he fails, he continues to confess and repent asking for forgiveness that the blood of Christ will cleanse (purify) his soul (I Jn. 1:8).

The genuine believer loves his brethren with a love that is unfeigned (1 Pet. 1:22). His love for others in Christ will not be with pretense or hypocrisy, but in sincerity. It is a love that is manifested in his actions.

The genuine believer sojourns in this life (I Pet. 1: 1, 17).

He realizes he is an alien in this world. If he allows this world to infatuate him, it will be reflected in his life. It is futile to concentrate on making this world so comfortable when one’s real home is in another world.

The genuine believer is willing to go through trials of hardship (I Pet. 1:7) because he has kept his faith strong. He will put his trust in God and remember his hope (Rev. 2: 10). He esteems his blessings in God far more than the perishables in this world.

A “real” believer is one that fears God (I Pet. 1: 17). He recognizes that God is his judge. He reverences and respects God’s Word. He understands that God is a consuming fire (Heb. 10:29) and that it is a fearful thing to fall into the hands of the living God (Heb. 10: 3 1). He therefore lives in the favor of God so that God in turn will protect him (I Pet 1: 5).

The Thrasher-Jackson Debate on Church Benevolence

By Wayne Greeson

Brother Thomas N. Thrasher met brother Roger Jackson in public debate in northern Alabama on June 3-4 and 6-7, on the subject of church benevolence. The first two nights were conducted near Somerville, Alabama, at the Union church of Christ building where Roger Jackson regularly preaches. These first two nights, the proposition was, “The Bible teaches that a church of the Lord’s people may make a contribution, from its treasury, to a home for orphans.” Jackson affirmed this proposition and brother Thrasher denied it. The second two nights were held in the building of the church of Christ on Sparkman Drive in Huntsville, Alabama. Brother Thrasher affirmed and Jackson denied that, “The Bible teaches that, in benevolence, a church of the Lord’s people is restricted to the relief of needy saints only.”

Both Thrasher and Jackson have conducted numerous debates. Jackson has had about ten prior debates, at least two have been on church benevolence, one with Ed Bragwell, Jr., and another with Bob Myhan. Brother Thrasher has had almost 40 debates but this was his first debate on the subject of church benevolence. The discussion between Thrasher and Jackson revealed the debating experience of these two men and clearly showed their differences on the issue of church benevolence.

The first night of the debate, Jackson affirmed that a church may contribute to a home for orphans. In support of his proposition, Jackson introduced the following “rule,” “All passages which relate to peculiarly religious matters are passages which apply with equal force both to the church and to the individual Christian.” This rule reappeared in virtually every speech in the debate and became the main focus of the debate.

Jackson also introduced Galatians 6:10, James 1:27, Acts 20:35 and Galatians 2:10. Interestingly, Jackson’s own chart clearly labeled these passages as instructions to “individuals.” So how could they be instructions concerning church benevolence? Only by the application of Jackson’s “rule.”

Thrasher quickly got to the heart of the discussion by asking Jackson three questions: “Where is the command for a church to contribute to a home for orphans?” “Where is the necessary implication for a church to contribute to a home for orphans?” Jackson responded by saying there was no command or example, but James 1:27 provided the necessary implication. Thrasher skillfully pointed out that there was no authority by command or approved example according to Jackson for a church to contribute to a home for orphans. Thrasher went further and demanded to know how Jackson could necessarily imply from James 1:27 that a church could contribute to a home for orphans, when the passage said nothing about the church, or the church contributing funds from its treasury. Thrasher pointed out that even Jackson admitted a church contributing to a home for orphans was not the only way or even the best way, therefore, this meant there was no necessary implication.

Thrasher also pointed out that Jackson’s “rule” was really “Jackson’s Law.” Jackson made a law where God has not made one and Thrasher urged Jackson to prove his “Law” by the Scriptures. Jackson first tried to support his “rule” or “law” by arguing that Ephesians 5:19 was to individuals, but it gave authority for the “church to sing.” Jackson even asked for the passage that authorizes the “church to sing.” Thrasher answered that individual Christians are authorized to “sing in church” by Hebrews 2:12.

Thrasher also questioned “Jackson’s Law” on several other points. Thrasher asked, if every member of a church could give to a college, can the church give to a college? Jackson avoided the question by saying a church could give to a teacher of the Bible. Thrasher wanted to know whether benevolence was a peculiarly religious act and if so, could I the church give to the KKK for its benevolent works? Jackson was vague about whether benevolence was a “peculiarly religious act” but he argued that the KKK did other things so the church could not give to it.

As Thrasher pressed Jackson to provide Scripture support for his “law,” Jackson mentioned three passages, 1 Corinthians 16:1-2, Revelation 2-3 and Galatians 6:2. Jackson said that 1 Corinthians 16:1-2 says, “As I gave order to the churches so do ye,” and this showed that orders to churches also applied to individuals, therefore, orders to individuals could apply to churches. Thrasher quickly noticed that none of these passages taught “Jackson’s Law.” Individuals and churches were not commanded to do the same thing in these passages. Further, 1 Corinthians 16:1-2 was, if anything, the opposite of Jackson’s Law. Jackson said commands to individuals apply to churches, 1 Corinthians 16:1-2 says, “As I gave order to the churches of Galatia, so do ye.”

Jackson also argued that Thrasher had two rules for Bible passages: one rule said passages to individuals could be applied to churches and a second rule that covered only two passages (Jas. 1:27 and Gal. 6:10), that the church must be specifically addressed or excluded. Thrasher said neither of these rules accurately reflected his position and he rejected Jackson’s characterization as false.

On the third and fourth nights of the debate, Thrasher affirmed that a church of the Lord’s people could provide benevolence to saints only. Thrasher, anticipating Jackson’s request for a rule of interpretation, went to Revelation 2 and 3 and indicated that he was going to “hear what the Spirit says to the churches.” Thrasher argued that in church benevolence, the Spirit says “saints” and the Spirit only said “saints.” Thrasher illustrated this principle with a series of charts. Where did the Bible authorize “singing and playing” or baptizing “believers and non-believers” or partaking of “bread and fruit of the vine and something else” or church benevolence to “saints and non-saints.”

Jackson repeatedly tried to argue for the specific words “saints only,” and he suggested that to argue “saints only,” was like the Baptists arguing “faith only.” Jackson made an interesting argument from Matthew 5:47. He argued that we should not salute our “brethren only” therefore, the church could provide benevolence to non-saints. At the same time, Jackson excluded certain groups from benevolence. His charts specifically excluded the “lazy,” “false teachers,” “enemies,” “thieves,” “sinners” and “the rich.” The only ones Jackson allowed church benevolence to were children and the feeble minded.

Thrasher used Jackson’s exclusions to his advantage. He argued that in Matthew 5, God sends the rain and sunshine on the “just and unjust” and the “good and evil” and Jesus is telling us to love all men, not our brethren only. But the church is not here and the passage did not authorize the church to provide benevolence. Thrasher argued that Jackson believed in limited benevolence, but the difference was Thrasher limited it to what the Spirit says to the churches. Thrasher asked where does the Bible say benevolence is to “honest people only,” or “poor only,” or “workers only” or “non-enemies only.” Thrasher vigorously argued that Matthew 5:43-48 includes enemies, the just and unjust and sinners under God’s law of love, but that Jackson’s misapplication of the passage to church benevolence excluded them.

Besides Matthew 5:47, Jackson also used Galatians 6:10 and briefly 2 Corinthians 9:13. These passages were intended to show that the church could contribute to saints and non-saints. Thrasher took each of these passages in turn, read the context and noted that none of the passages authorized church benevolence to non-saints. Thrasher noted that the only possible way Galatians 6:10 and Matthew 5:47 could apply to the church was by “Jackson’s Law” and that was not found in God’s Word. In one chart, entitled, “Metamorphosis,” Thrasher showed how the command to the “individual” was meta-morphosized to a command to the “church” by Jackson’s Law.

Over all, brother Thrasher dealt with the issue and questions very straightforwardly and simply. One could not misunderstand where he stood and what he said. On the other hand, Jackson appeared at times to purposely avoid questions and try to create confusion and misunderstanding, to avoid the argument. However, Jackson is to be commended for his willingness to openly debate these issues, something fewer and fewer of his brethren are willing to do.

If anyone desires audio and/or video tapes of the debate, contact Thomas N. Thrasher at P.O. Box 9141, Decatur, Alabama 35602 (phone: 205-353-3085).

Guardian of Truth XXXV: 15, pp. 454-455
August 1, 1991

Are You Saved?

By Ron Halbrook

God has provided or offered salvation from sin for every soul. The Father prepared a perfect plan for saving the lost, “according to the eternal purpose which he purposed in Christ Jesus our Lord” (Eph. 3:11). The Son of God died on the cross as a perfect sacrifice for our sins. “This is my blood of the new testament, which is shed for many for the remission of sins” (Matt. 26:28). The Holy Spirit made a perfect revelation of the gospel in its fulness and finality, all of which was recorded in the Bible (Jn. 16:13; 2 Tim. 3:16-17). Salvation is thus provided by the love, mercy, grace, and compassion of God, yet he will not force anyone to be saved.

Man must accept God’s offer of salvation. What must we do to accept salvation by grace? Faith in Christ is necessary. “He that believeth and is baptized shall be saved” (Mk. 16:16). We must repent of our sins. “Repent, and be baptized every one of you in the name of Jesus Christ for the remission of sins” (Acts 2:38). We must confess the deity of Jesus Christ. “The eunuch said, See, here is water; what doth hinder me to be baptized? And Philip said, If thou believest with all thine heart, thou mayest. And he answered and said, I believe that Jesus Christ is the Son of God” (Acts 8:36-37).

We must be immersed in water. Baptism is essential to salvation because baptism is essential to true faith, repentance, and confession (see passages already quoted). When we are baptized, we are “then made free from sin” (Rom. 6:3-4, 1718). Have you been made free from sin by obeying the gospel?

We are ready to help you in studying the gospel and in obeying it so that you can receive God’s grace. For eternity’s sake, we plead with you to face the question: are you saved?

Guardian of Truth XXXV: 15, p. 463
August 1, 1991