Safe Sex

By Andy Alexander

Our society is becoming increasingly hedonistic. Men and women are searching for ways to enjoy this life without any regard to eternity. One of the ways they have found to enjoy this life is by committing sexual immorality, such as homosexuality, fornication, and adultery. The wearing of immodest apparel, dancing, and viewing movies which portray all of these forms of sexual immorality are forms of lasciviousness which create lust in the minds of the viewer and if left unchecked will eventually bring death (Jas. 1:14-15).

Many have found that along with the uncontrolled fulfillment of their lusts comes some unpleasant and unwanted side effects. Various diseases (the most feared of which is AIDS), unwanted pregnancies, and divorces are some of the consequences which follow the fulfilling of these desires. Man’s answer to all of these diseases is to educate everyone, especially children, as to how they can commit these acts of immorality in a safe way. They have coined the phrase 4 ‘safe sex” and promoted this all over the country as the answer to all of the problems and consequences that come from the uncontrolled fulfillment of the lusts of the flesh.

God has provided for the lawful fulfillment of the desires that exist in men and women. Hebrews 13:4 states, “Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the marriage bed be undefiled; for fornicators and adulterers God will judge.” 1 Corinthians 7:23 says, “But because of immoralities, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband. Let the husband fulfill his duty to his wife, and likewise also the wife to her husband.” This is the only form of safe sex because it is the only form with God’s approval. Any sex outside the marriage relationship is not safe because it is sin and sin will keep one out of the kingdom of heaven (Gal. 5:19-21).

Children as well as most adults need teaching from God’s word on the subject of safe sex. Parents need to sit with their children and open God’s word and teach them the sanctity of marriage and the need for them to wait until they are married before engaging in the sexual relationship. Instead of feeding upon God’s word, most children are feeding from the trough of Hollywood via the television set and movies which openly advocate sexual immorality of every kind.

Following God’s law will end the problems that come from sexual immorality. Unwanted pregnancies, abortion, sexually transmitted diseases, divorce and all the other ills that accompany these sins will cease if all will just simply obey God.

Guardian of Truth XXXIV: 16, p. 487
August 16, 1990

A Teenager Appeals for Modest Dress: Modesty – No Exceptions or Excuses!

By Kristiana Burk

The subject of modesty should be a topic of great importance. How should Christians adorn themselves? Are we, as children of God, pleasing our Heavenly Father with the way we dress?

People frequently use excuses to justify immodest apparel. The excuses, “It’s so much cooler to wear these clothes” and “The stores don’t sell anything else,” are used to justify the wearing of clothes which people know are wrong. True short shorts, halter tops, swimsuits, and things like that are cooler, but are you showing what you shouldn’t be showing? The excuse that stores don’t sell anything else is very poor. I find things constantly that are modest. Another excuse, “But Mom, everybody else does,” doesn’t make it right either. Being a teenager myself, I want everyone to accept me. In John 15:18-25, we find that to be an acceptable Christian, we will be different. That’s how our light will shine! Other verses, such as Matthew 7:13-14 and Luke 6:22-23,26 show why we are different. Are you willing to risk your soul just to be popular? Are you risking it just to be cooler or because everybody else does?

Parents and others admit that very tight pants and short shorts are immodest. The same goes with halter tops and very short mini-skirts. The problem is, we make exceptions. Let me bring to your attention exceptions made in everyday life. Gym clothes in schools are usually short shorts and a T-shirt. Can’t you wear longer shorts to run in? Cheerleading is another example. In our society it’s not proper to do flips and jump around in a dress while in public or really anywhere else, but isn’t that exactly what you’re doing while cheerleading? During pep rallies, what do the cheerleaders do but a dance with provocative movements in short, skimpy skirts with nothing but underwear beneath, for the benefit of the football players and everyone else. Is that not sinful?

The same thing goes for swimming. There is nothing wrong with swimming – you’re just getting wet. The thing that makes swimming in mixed company wrong is the swim wear. A few years ago I argued, “But Mom, that’s what everybody else wears.” She pointed out that a swimsuit (one piece) was no different from wearing a tank top and underwear. My brothers and I were looking for lawns to mow, when the oldest one came and said, “Kristi, that lady came to the door with her bra on!” It turns out she had on her bikini, with a towel draped around her waist. Is it any different?

Lots of people love to swim – so do I. Parents, invest in your own pool so you can set your own rules. My parents bought a cheaper, above the ground, four foot pool. I remember the day we put it up our whole neighborhood of kids helped. We told them they could go swimmiing if they wore a one piece bathing suit and long shorts (the boys wore a shirt and shorts) and everybody loved it. It’s a good investment, parents.

The Bible teaches the immutability of God. In Isaiah 47:1-3 we find what God calls immodesty; “Come down and sit in the dust, O virgin daughter of Babylon; sit on the ground: there is no throne, O daughter of the Chaldeans: for thou shalt no longer be called tender and delicate. Take the millstones, and grind meal; uncover thy locks, make bare the leg, uncover the thigh, pass over the rivers. Thy nakedness shall be uncovered, yea, thy shame shall be seen. I will take vengence, and I will not meet thee as a man.” Here we see that the uncovered thighs are called nakedness. If God never changes, then don’t you think he feels the same today? From the very beginning we can see that he demanded nakedness to be covered. In the beginning for Adam and Eve, he made robes. In Genesis 9:20-27 we find that it is shameful to be naked in public. Noah’s two sons, Shem and Japheth, covered their eyes so they wouldn’t see their father’s nakedness. Ham was cursed by him for seeing it and doing nothing about it. In Exodus 28:42, the priests were to have trousers from the waist to the thighs – this was to cover their nakedness. The definition of thigh, in the World Book Dictionary, is “part of the human body, from the hip to the knee.” Therefore, to “cover your nakedness,” the high, from the hip to the knee, must be covered.

As Christians, we are to love God and keep his commandments. We are to shine forth in the world. Yes, we’re to be different. It’s not easy, but as Paul said in Philippians 4:13, “I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me.” We will suffer persecutions and trials, but think of the grand mansion and place by God’s side that awaits us. “Be thou faithful unto death, and I will give you the crown of life” (Rev. 2:10).

Guardian of Truth XXXIV: 16, pp. 481, 502
August 16, 1990

Institutionalism: Why I Changed

By J.T. Smith

Listening to arguments by different brethren who are close personal friends and not studying a position through for yourself, is far different from having to either affirm or defend said position for yourself. This is what I discovered in the early years of my preaching. Although I have been preaching for over 25 years, one of the hardest lessons that I had to learn was that one should not take a position simply because some friend or loved one, whom you consider to be a good Bible student, tells you it is right.

Institutionalism was probably one of the most difficult studies that I have ever had to “wade” through. There are a number of reasons why this is true. First of all, it was true because there were (and are) men of outstanding ability and Bible knowledge on both sides of the issue. Secondly, it is an issue, for the most part, where one is prone to allow his heart to rule his thinking instead of allowing his position to be based on the Bible teaching. And third, many of us worry and fret about some “label” that our friends and loved ones are going to place on us if we oppose church support to orphan homes, hospitals, a sponsoring church (Herald of Truth World Radio) type of cooperation by churches.

Before finally taking a stand against the above mentioned institutions and cooperative arrangements, I had vacillated from one position to another – according to the preacher friend with which I was talking. And like so many others, I didn’t want that terrible “anti” brand put on me. Finally, however, I had an opportunity to attend a debate on the subject in Louisville, Kentucky, between brethren Guy N. Woods and A.C. Grider. And though I had never met brother Woods, I knew of his reputation as a Bible scholar and an experienced debater. Of course I had known brother Grider most of my life, as we were reared within just a few miles of each other; and I just knew he would never be able to stand up under the powerful Guy N. Woods. But, to my amazement, not only did he stand, but how brightly the truth shone, especially on the Herald of Truth, sponsoring church arrangement. And it may have shined just as brightly on the Orphan Home question – except for the fact that as thousands of others I had “heart trouble” in being able to see the truth for those “poor little orphans” that brother Woods kept bringing up.

After the debate, I confronted brother Grider myself and told him that I wanted to meet with him later and discuss the matter especially of the orphan home. After many hours of study I thought I had some questions he could not answer. I remember well that day I made an appointment to go to his home in Louisville. With questions in hand, I confronted him and Jim Cope (who was in a meeting at Preston Highway in Louisville) with my questions and took the worst “whipping” I have probably taken on any religious issue before or since. They, in turn, gave me some questions to answer. They said, “If you can find scriptural answers to these questions, we will concede your position is right.”

Since that time until this day, I have read and listened to every discussion I could on these issues, as well as confronting preaching privately and engaging in public debates on these very issues. And, until this day, no one has given any Scriptures, that to my satisfaction, answered the questions that were asked of me that day. I repeat these questions for you here.

1. Where in the Bible did one church ever send money to another church to preach the gospel?

2. Where is the scriptural authority for a church making a donation to any kind of human institution?

3. Where is Bible authority for elders overseeing any work except that “which is among them” (1 Pet. 5:2)?

4. Where is the authority for the church engaging in providing suppers, parties, or entertainment for anyone?

Now in view of the fact that I could find no scriptural authority in answer to these questions, what was I to do? You know the answer to that as well as 1. When we find that the position we hold won’t stand the Bible test, there is only one thing to do – change your position. And that is exactly what I did.

But, for those of you who have come to the conclusion that there are no Bible answers to the above questions, but have not taken your stand for truth because of pressures brought to bear, I know your problem and can sympathize with you. For when I took my stand for truth, I immediately became “an orphan hater,” one of those dreadful “antis,” was fired from the congregation where I was preaching, and was told by one of my dearest preacher friends, “I hope you quit preaching.” But you know I realized, as you must on this and every other Bible subject, that I must take my stand for truth and right regardless of what anyone may say to me or about me. For, regardless of what men may say, God is right. And Jesus said, “Seek ye first the kingdom of God and his righteousness and all these things shall be added unto you” (Matt. 6:33). That is why I changed Jesus said I must! “And a man’s foes shall be those of his own household. He that loveth father or mother more than me is not worthy of me” (Matt. 10:36-38). In light of these passages of Scripture, we cannot allow anyone to stand between us and truth.

All of you who read this article, or who have read my writings in the past, know that I am still trying to obtain the answers to the questions that are stated in this article. It would be a happy day in my life if I could write or call those who are so bitterly opposed to me, and join hands and hearts with them again. Yes, with all the pleas I have made for Bible authority on these issues, few have even tried to give me scriptural authority for these things – and those who have tried gave scriptures that have nothing to do with the questions we have asked. Therefore, I will have to continue to speak out against institutionalism and those who espouse it, as much as I dislike being in opposition to my brethren. But Paul said “And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them” (Eph. 5:11). Thus, I must do this to be pleasing to God. If I preach anything that was not received from God, his curses will rest upon me (Gal. 1:6-9). And if I do not abide in the doctrine of Christ, I cannot have God (2 Jn. 9).

So, as you can well see, I can sympathize with your situation and feel sorry for you. I know it will be hard, but you too must take your stand against institutionalism and against anything for which you cannot find Bible authority. I beg of you – please stand up against these innovations or else give me scriptural authority for your practices so that I may stand with you! (Searching the Scriptures, Aug. 1978, pp. 174-175.)

Guardian of Truth XXXIV: 15, pp. 465-466
August 2, 1990

God’s Pattern for the Lord’s Supper

By Ron Halbrook

At the conclusion of the Passover meal, Jesus took some of the unleavened bread and fruit of the vine, and ordained a special use for them “in my Father’s kingdom.”

Jesus took bread, and blessed it, and brake it, and gave it to the disciples, and said, Take, eat; this is my body. And he took the cup, and gave thanks, and gave it to them, saying, drink ye all of it; For this is my blood of the new testament, which is shed for many for the remission of sins (Matt. 26:26-29).

The kingdom of God was fully established on the following Pentecost, when Peter preached that men could now receive the remission of their sins through the blood of Christ. “Repent, and be baptized for the remission of your sins, and ye shall receive the gift of Holy Ghost” (Acts 2:38). Those who entered the kingdom on that day enjoyed the full blessing of the promised kingdom, including the Lord’s Supper (v. 42).

The inspired Apostles taught the same thing “every where in the church,” including the Lord’s Supper (1 Cor. 4:17; 11: 17-34). Every Christian was privileged to eat “the Lord’s Supper” in memory of Jesus “when ye come together in the church.” “For we are all partakers of that one bread” (11:17, 34; 10:16-21). Through the inspired Apostles, God taught Christians to glorify him by songs, prayers, and lessons taught from the gospel. Christians could gather at any time for such activities, but two additional acts of worship were ordained for the Sunday meeting.

And upon the first day of the week, when the disciples came together to break bread, Paul preached unto them (Acts 20:7).

Upon the first day of the week let every one of you lay by him ip store, as God hath prospered him (1 Cor. 16:2).

Every Christian was obligated to give as he was prospered and to take the Lord’s Supper every Sunday.

God’s true people follow God’s pattern of worship every Sunday in the Kingdom of God, which is the church of Christ. “Hold fast the form of sound words, which thou hast heard of me, in faith and love which is in Christ Jesus” (2 Tim. 1:13). One way to distinguish Jehovah’s true people from false religions is by whether they follow or depart from God’s true pattern of worship in the Lord’s Supper.

Now the spirit speaketh expressly, that in the latter times some shall depart from the faith (1 Tim. 4:1).

Whosoever transgresseth, and abideth not in the doctrine of Christ, hath not God. He that abideth in the doctrine of Christ, he hath both the Father and the Son (2 Jn. 9).

Jesus said our worship is vain if we follow the doctrines and commandments of men (Matt. 15:9).

Men have changed God’s pattern for the Lord’s Supper in many ways. Mormons substitute water for the fruit of the vine. Many people in Catholic Churches eat the bread but do not drink of the cup, while their priest does both. The Protestant denominations – Episcopal, Methodist, Presbyterian, Baptist, etc. – generally offer the Lord’s Supper quarterly, annually, or during man-made holy days rather than every Sunday. Some religions use the Sabbath day (Saturday) from the Law of Moses for the memorial, or use various days of the week, rather than following God’s pattern on the first day of the week.

The Jehovah’s Witnesses and other false sects try to have the Supper on the date of the Passover meal under the Law of Moses. Therefore, they prepare this memorial only once a year and it may fall on any day of the week. If we should follow Moses’ Law in this matter, we should travel to Jerusalem and keep the law on animal sacrifices as the Jews did with the Passover. Christ took away the Law of Moses with its Passover and gave us “a new covenant” with the Lord’s Supper every Sunday (Heb. 8:13; 10:9; Acts 20:7). No one can find a passage where the Lord’s Supper was offered on the date of the old Passover in the kingdom or church of our Lord. The Witnesses teach that only 144,000 people out of all history are fit to eat the Lord’s Supper, most of whom are dead. Almost no one eats when the Witnesses prepare our Lord’s memorial. What a vain spectacle, what an empty show of formality!

Visit the church of Christ and see God’s pattern observed every Sunday in the Lord’s Supper. Are you in a religion which follows the doctrines of men?

Guardian of Truth XXXIV: 15, p. 464
August 2, 1990